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writes:hovering around the same subject as my last two posts: the girl who i think i love, who is also my bestfriends ex.i still am holding off on the whole telling her how i feel idea, but today i might have realized something..ok, so last week, i left a few things in her car. today she came by my house to drop them off. now before this, i had a tiny ray of light that she had a slight interest in me, but after seeing her today, that tiny ray is pretty much gone. this isnt the only thing that pushes me to that decision. over the past few days, ive been try to call or text her. usually she wont answer or reply back, but occasionally, she will. i think its because shes trying to make it seem like shes not ignoring me on purpose. also, after she left my house today from dropping my stuff off, i called her to see what she and her friends were doing later, she said they were all just going home. seems to me shes just trying to avoid me. so what i need to know is: what can i do on my own to tell if she even cares about me?
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reader, brogz  +, writes (16 April 2009):
 you have tried to help her and give her your support , but she obviously doesnt appreciate that so , just leave her to cry it out now, until shes feeling ok again,good luck with it (:xxx
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reader, bOy CrAzY;} +, writes (16 April 2009):
Okay this time I totaly disagree with u satindesire! Okay love some girls don't like to be talked to when they get hurt. You should just sit there with her and don't say anything just sit there and let her cry for him.......but let her do it in your arms so she sees that ur a good guy who actually does care because ur there for her in her time of need! Good luck dude;)
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reader, syekim1 +, writes (16 April 2009):
syekim1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionto the three who cared enough to answer one of my posts for once in long time. thanks by the way. well anyway, here's an update.
so I talked to one of her best friends (another close friend of mine) and she kinda let me in on her current status. she just broke up with who she claimed to be the love of her life (also my best friend, as I mentioned) a week ago. I completely understood that, even before I wrote this. I was actually with here the night her bf broke up with her.
so what I decided to do is to just stay out of her way for now, until she gets over him. who knows maybe it'll give me some time to swallow my feelings, and eat my heart out. yes, it's gonna hurt me emotionally being that I don't think I've felt this way about anyone else before, but the last thing she needs right now is someone else to bother her. I tried to be their for her, since the moment of her break up. I sent her what she said was the "nicest txt" that night which she said also made her cry even more. I tried to be a good friend, show her I care, and be that shoulder to cry on, but all that I seem to getting back from her is all my sympathy being thrown back in my face..
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reader, bOy CrAzY;} +, writes (16 April 2009):
Well for once I actually Agee with satindesire;) just ask her dude
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reader, brogz +, writes (16 April 2009):
heya (:i would ask her if i were u,call her up and meet up somewhere quiet and nice.sit her down and talk to her about wots been bugging u.it will help u understand the situation of where u stand with her.good luck (:xxx
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