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Is he just using me for sex and company?

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Question - (16 April 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am 17 years old, and was dating a boy who has turned 19 for 4 months. He dumped me on the night of a party I was hosting claiming that I acted like "a drunk hoe". I really wasn't acting that bad, he just didn't like that I paid more attention to other male guests than him and took pictures with them. After that we had many discussions which all ended with him saying he still likes me, that he doesn't want any other girls, but that he is too busy for a relationship.

He works a full time job 6-7 days a week and is doing an online course for the final mark in his university top 6 credits. When we met he was doing the same thing and we still dated, the only difference is that he says now there is more stress to get a good mark on the credit to get into university which is why he doesn't want to date, but still wants to have the physical part of the relationship.

We continued to act as if we were still in a relationship and after a week, resumed sexual relations. I would like to know whether you think he is just using me for the sex and company or if he actually has true feelings for me and is really just too stressed for a relationship.

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