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writes:Been with my bf for a while now 6-7 months.When he gets depressed I get really upset, like last night he said to me on the phone that everyday he is with me he feels its another one off. I asked him this morning if he is happy and he said he is but like he doesnt seem it.I did stuff with my ex, finger n toss obv when i was with my ex, and i have only done that withmy current boyfriend too. He started saying to me tht i obv dont like him enough to do anything with him and that if i was with my ex for 7 months we would have done everything by now. He really upset me last night. I said do you want to be with me and he sed yeah but this relationship is not going anywhere. I was crying loads last night it was un-believeable.I felt awfull. I don't wanna loose him cause the thought of that breaks my heart and makes me want to cry but I dont want him leaving me if you know what I mean.Please please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009): This guy is trying to guilt you into sleeping with him. Hang onto you virginity honey... he's not worth it!! If he is making you so sad rather leave him, yes you will be sad for a while afterwards but then you wont have to put up with his making you feel guilty. Hes only into his own pleasures - not yours!
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (16 April 2009):
 hun!he's playing you!!he's trying to guilt trip you into getting into bed with him!don't fall for it!i've had that he's trying to emotionally blackmail you into sleeping with him and it's not right and not fair on you!i mean once he's got you into bed that's it he could move on.you really,don't need a guy like that in your lifehe's pressuring you without you realising it!he is trying to make you feel so guilty that in the end he will break you and you will sleep with him!please don't do that to yourself!at least wait until you know he's the onei mean he's going to be like that i wouldn't give him the time of day!hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbut I don't want to go all the way am 15 he 17
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009): if going as far as you are with your boyfriend is all you're comfy with, don't feel pressured just to go all the way just to keep him happy.
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