A
male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I celebrated my birthday last night at my local bar, and a girl who works there was also celebrating hers (though she wasn't working that night, just partying). I had talked to this girl a few times before, and even given her a ride home once, but I always thought it was more passing friendship than anything else.But I'm not sure after last night now. She saw my gifts on the table and stopped to say hi at my table. We found out it was each other's birthday, did the whole high 5 thing (smooth, right?), and then went back to our own groups for a while.About an hour later and wrapped her arms around my stomach and said that we should go do a shot, which we did. I talked to her for a little bit, we laughed at each others drivers license pictures, etc... then went back to our business again.Now, my group had decided to go grab some pizza, so I went with them and she spotted me leaving and yelled across the patio to ask if I was going. I said yes and then she ran over and kind of playfully tried to make me feel bad about leaving, but alas, I was hungry.I do find her very attractive, and I'm wondering if I should pursue this? Or if it was more likely a combination of sharing the same birthday and drinking that brought this on. Any advice into the female psyche here would be welcomed. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009): Advice on the female psyche? That's a tough one. A very tough one. No mere man could offer any correct advice on that.
What I can say however, is simply 'Nothing ventured - nothing gained'. You know where she works, but if you've got her contact details or whatever, get in touch and try get to know each other better.
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