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female
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anonymous
writes: Well I have this good acquaintance of mine that kept on staring at me. Rumor has it that he has a gf. If not a gf, a girl he's crushing on. I know for a fact that that girl isn't me.So one day, my best friend decided to take matters on her own hands and ask him what the deal was and why he kept on staring at me if he had a girl. He was shocked, started pacing and turned her back towards her and walked to her again, repeating my name in disbelief. He said that he only thought of me as a friend. My friend then asked him what the whole staring thing was about then cause it kept on giving her ideas. He paused for a moment and asked, in a curious, as though he just remembered voice if I still liked him. (We sorta have a history together. But we've never been 'official'.) He also said that he already loved another girl (and said girl isn't me).But he still keeps on staring and its like he wants to talk to me. My friend caught him staring at my bus. He also asked my friend where I was when I was absent. We already saw each other but we haven't talked since the 'incident'.My friend told me to just tell him that I like him, but what if he already has a gf? What if he tells his friends and laugh at me behind my back? Worse. What if he tells his so-called gf?
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (16 April 2009):
He sounds like he's trying to get you to think about him more. When people stare at you it is often because they want to spark off some chemistry if they want attention. I would just drop the whole thing, only treat this guy as a friend and move on from him! X
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