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writes:hi, just want some advice. My boyfriend of two years is a lovely boyfriend. I think he can be a bit neieve around other girls though.im hes first girlfriend. But on two ocassions two girls have kissed him and he has stood there and done nothing. I just dont understand why he did nothing. First time he cried and told me the next day. Second time i found out from he s mates girlfriend. He fessed up straight away and said he was scared to tell him cause of how i re acted before and did not want me to end it. Is this cheating what hes doing? Help ? Thanks ally
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2009): ok let me perhase that. When i mean he did nothing. They kissed him and he did not snog them back and pushed them away after a few seconds.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (16 April 2009):
No, this is not acceptable OR forgiveable.
If they went to kiss him and he pushed them away then fine, but he let them kiss him.
No matter how naive you are, you know when someone is about to kiss you and you stop it.
I think once, he could have got away with it, but twice... well it's your choice but if I was in your position I would walk away. It's probably going to happen again and I wouldn't want to have to deal with that hurt.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Trish123 +, writes (16 April 2009):
 I wouldn't put up with it! He knows what kissing is, he knows 'coz he's with you... and you should be the only person to kiss him. Let him know he's in the wrong. What would be do if it was the other way round? I would class a flirty text to another girl as cheating. Boys.... they're not worth it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009): just wanted to say thank you to the the most recent comment thanks for your help. Ally
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009): if they kissed him (and they dont know he in a relationship) i wouldnt say it was cheating, but if he let it go on and not stop them then he is in the wrong as well as those girls. from what you wrote it sounds like you may of reacted strongly the first time (which i dont blame you for doing), try talking (calmly) to him and tell him your not happy with this going on and if it happens again he should stop them. hopefully he smart enough to realise what he has with you and he'll not let it happen again.
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reader, Danny_Boy +, writes (16 April 2009):
Hi,
Thought this mite help i have done exactly the same thing to my girlfriend as ure bf has except ive kissed her sister a few times and fingered her. If you love him stay with him but tell him how bad the cheating makes u feel i was devastated when i cheated on my girlfriend.
Hope this helps need anymore advice id be happy to help.
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