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Question - (16 April 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 16 April 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

(this is a follow up to http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-he-just-flirting-with-me-or-does.html sorry but just got the clues)

Lately I been going crazy about this boy named "HR" his same age as me but turning 17 this year and I’m 16.

Last week On Monday I saw him when I was walking to school he kept looking behind to see me and at the end he crossed the road and then looked at me and I smiled and he waved to say Hello and I waved to this person,

He does Skunk his addicted to it but his A very nice lad. My parents know him and HR is my brothers good mate, But there’s something about HR I like and when he speaks to my brother he keeps looking at me and makes me laugh so much that I just cant stop I don’t want to tell him I fancy him encase I’m getting all the signs wrong.

Signs he gave me:

1.He makes me laugh a lot never touched me but I always make sure that he says Hello to me first because to see if he gets the idea that I’m interested.

2. Whenever we see each other we just stare into each others eyes and I just can’t let it go I really like him a lot.

Thanks?

And last thing/

Yesterday I watched him when I was in my front garden sweeping he was playing football with my young brother. When I walked out he stared at me so I stared back for just 1sec and then he carried on fixing my brothers bike and after he went to play football and we both looked at each other every 5minutes,But I looked every 2minutes because I really like him allot. I am to shy to ask him.

Yesterday I walked past him he was with his friends and I was with my little brother and his mate, when he saw me he put his head down and kept walking and not looking at me he was with 2 of his mates that I know. His mate got the idea I fancied him for some reason I did make it obvious which I know regret because he hasn’t been looking at me like he was before and I was staring at him every 2secs and he just switched off and I don’t understand why he is it saying Hello no more or staring at me like he used to what’s going ON.

Today I am happy today he knocked on my door and My little brother opened the door and ask for my big brother which he was in the bathroom and HR made a joke because my little brother said its my brothers birthday today and HR was like where is he? And my little brother said his in the bathroom loll. And HR was like on his birthday his in the bathroom I was laughing loll.

And also when he was talking to my little brother he kept looking at me while talking to him and his eye brows lifted loll. And after my brother came down from the bathroom and i was standing with him when he was talking to HR and HR kept looking at me while talking to my brother loll. And then my brother was like to me "who u looking at" to me and smiled/laughed loll. i was like nothing and then i walked in and HR just looked I FELT embarrass loll but DAM. Does this say anything?

Please help me:

I don’t understand what I have done.

P.S I can’t tell him encase he uses me for one thing or he just goes out with me for fun.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009):

Honey, will you just tell him! He clearly likes you if not why does he keep looking at you-you should tell him to stop it otherwise! Lol. You have done nothing wrong from what I read-looking at him?

You need to tell him or else how will either of you find out the other likes the other. If you're implying he'll use you for sex, well you tell him no-you have a voice. But also, if you can't tell him now how you feel, how will you ever cope in a relationship with him-you need a lil confidence boost and I'm virtually nudging you out your door to do something! Have fun with him, flirt like crazy, just get your point across.

Tell your brother or make it REALLY obvious you like him. I'm getting excited for you now so you HAVE to get him! Lol. If not, you will regret the missed chance when he's found another girl.

Much love izi

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