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writes:I hope you can help me, I'm a married woman age 21 years and I also have a 4 year old son! My problem is whenever my husband and myself are having sex I don't feel like it, but he never noticed it because I never let him see that, I know he loves me to death and I do love him too. I please him in all ways.2 years ago I cheated on him. I told him about it but I never told him I had sex with the other guy 3 times. Could you please give me some advice on what I should do? Our marriage is going so sweet now but I don't know why I feel this way... please help me, I don't wanna lose him, I love himm to death but I feel so guilty!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2009): This is just my opinion, but I think the reason that you're never in the mood with your boyfriend is because, like you said, you feel guilty for cheating on him. What you feel is natural, at least you have somewhat of a conscience even though you cheated. It's obviously still affecting you now, so I think you really know deep down inside what the best thing is to do. If your current husband is the father of your child, then you should consider how what you do can and will affect your child. If he is not the father, then you might want to consider the fact that if something is bothering you, because you're keeping it from someone else, then it will probably eat away at you inside ( like it seems to be). But only you know what's right for you, just think with your mind next time and don't let emotions pull you into negative situations. Hope that helps.
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reader, FLAgirl1113  +, writes (16 April 2009):
The incident occurred two years ago. Why would you want to re-open that whole can of worms? Are you afraid that he will find out or something?
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