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writes:There's this girl I recently met, and I'm finding it very hard to read her. I won't say her name, nor mine, well I'll say mine. My name is Alex. I met this girl at work and I can't tell if she has an interest in me, because she seems to be playing head games with me, or maybe that's all in my head.I'm currently with another girl. Have been with her for 3 years, we've distanced, but anyways, this isn't me trying to go behind her back or anything. This other girl, I think of her as a very good friend, but I want to know if there's more in her head than just friends. She was shy when we first met, we didn't talk much, now we talk every night, we talk about 3-4 times a day, simple conversations, sometimes deeper ones. She texts me a few times a day as well. We'll have normal chats, just like friends do, then at times she'll ask me to come over and watch a romantic movie with her! When I have to work late or something, she'll joke that she's going to have a bad night without me to talk to!So far it must seem like she's totally in to me. She already told me she's into basically what my personality is, but indirectly, and often speaks of this guy at work who works with us named Nat. I know that he has a little thing for her as well, so I'm not sure to think they might have a thing going on, which is fine with me! I'm just curious if she's playing head games with me. She knows I'm in a relationship, but has never really mentioned it to me. What do you think about the whole situation?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2009): she does have a thing for you. she sounds pretty needy. pay attention to your girlfriend instead.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009): You're giving this girl a hell of a lot of attention when you already have a girlfriend. This isn't fair on either of them. If you give a lot of attention, it's seen as being interested. She's inviting you round for romantic films because she wants to get romantic, that's my guess, and talking about the other one to make you jealous. My advice is keep your life simple and stick to your girlfriend. And tell the other one you have someone and it isn't appropriate.
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