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Why won't I let myself cum?

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Question - (16 April 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 16 April 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi when i masterbate rub the clit to stimulate myself it's really good and really gets me going

but what i find difficult is that i won't cum like i'll get really uberly wet but then i feel i have to go to the toilet and i am not sure whether i've ever cummed whilst orgasming...

i want to really like cum alot and stuff but i'm too scared to sort of let it go if that makes sense?

and after i've done it i can't go again because it's like im done now and that's it

is this normal or am i weird?

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A female reader, niki20 United States +, writes (16 April 2009):

niki20 agony auntsometime before people cum they feel like they gotta pee, just continue. go potty before so you can completly satisfy yourself, being wet is your bodies way of saying hey im horny, this feels good. on your way to the big o, or lubing itself up for a penis to enter. its normal dont be scared, your perfectly fine.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009):

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k thanks both

although lazy guy you seemed a bit rude

plz dnt be sarcastic

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (16 April 2009):

LazyGuy agony auntcummed whilst orgasming? Isn't this like wondering if you ever laughed while laughing?

The sensation that you have to pee is in some women part of the buildup to an orgasm. Go to the toilet before so you are certain you don't really need to pee and continue. If you are really worried about having an accident do it in the bathroom or with some towels down but almost certainly it is part of your buildup.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009):

sometimes when you get wet thats cumming. every women is differant. if you dont have the big o, you can still have a lil cum, i think

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