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How can I either stop myself from cumming so soon or find a way to make my boyfriend cum faster???

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Question - (16 April 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 April 2009)
A female Ireland age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am very sensitive when it comes to having sex and find that I cum very easily... my boyfriend is the opposite and takes time to come... I get very frustrated and feel as if I'm not doing enough to please my boyfriend... How can I either stop myself from cumming so soon or find a way to make my boyfriend cum faster?????

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009):

isn't it amazing what people think is a problem? I love it when my girlfriend cums. It makes me feel powerful that i can pleasure her so much.

You are probably worried about nothing. Has your boyfriend said he's bothered by how fast you cum? I expect he loves it. There is also no rule that you can only cum once you know. You can come many times while waiting for your man to cum. Just enjoy what have xxx

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A male reader, WindupBird United States +, writes (16 April 2009):

WindupBird agony auntIf you are female then why should it matter if you cum quickly?

For most men this would be a positive thing. It makes us feel potent and sexually powerful to be able to make our partner cum (repeatedly especially).

So yeah...enjoy it. Count yourself as lucky not to be one of those women who has difficulty cumming from normal intercourse...

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A female reader, FLAgirl1113 United States +, writes (16 April 2009):

You can't really keep yourself from cumming unless you stop him...and I know you don't wanna do that. What's wrong with cumming multiple times?

I can make my partner cum faster by talking to him. I know you might already do this, but that's what works for me. When a guy is dragging...I start to whisper the freakiest things to him and within moments...you know the rest. Sometimes it's hilarious!! "You like that?" "Oh my, I love your d*&k." "I love it when you..." Use your imagination. I hope this helps.

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