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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I'm constantly worried about what my man is up to when I'm not around. It's not like he does anything particularly major which makes me feel really silly and pathetic. I know it's not healthy in a relationship. There's so much that's right with him and I love him to bits, but it still doesn't stop me thinking the worst. He hides the most ridiculous things from me, like when he adds a friend on facebook.... who texts or gets texts from.... when he's been looking at porn on the web.... when he's been to a strip club.... who he went out with. Maybe I should... but I never ask what he's been up to 'coz I wouldn't want it all to be turned round to me and make me look like I'm nagging.... but when I find out.... I feel betrayed and sad. How can you base a relationship on something that feels like a constant lie where he doesn't tell me about these small things? It makes me wonder what it is that he's also hiding and I haven't caught onto..... any help anyone?
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reader, Sweet-thing +, writes (17 April 2009):
 Your guy is not really 'your guy' at all now is he? Obviously he enjoys your company, no doubt enjoys having sex with you but he is showing signs of the typical male who does not see himself in a serious relationship. Therefore he is still behaving like a single guy who's up for anything and clearly he does anything he wants. If you plan to have a future with a guy, you'd better scratch this one of the list. He's not settling down with just one gal anytime soon. And you deserve someone more committed and less obvious that he's still looking for someone else.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009): if he is being secretive i would feel the same. Girl the only way of finding out if he is up to anything then confront him. If he has no secrets he will have nothing to hide and show you what you want to see to rest your mind. Tell him how you feel, other wise your kill your self doing this for the rest of your relationship. I hope this helps sweetie. Good luck. :) x
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