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Loveless...

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Question - (16 April 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 16 April 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Dear readers, To cut a long story short, and without going into personal detail or circumstance. Is there anybody whom has lived apart from their partners for years on end and only get together may be 8 days a year...

A phone call once a day to discuss the children. No attention, or personal talk, not even How are you! Constantly being blamed for losing our last 2 homes, one of which was in a foreign country, whilst the partner worked away, leaving me with two children to look after alone with just one leave a year, obviously fitting in with work.

My issue is while understanding that money is a necessary evil, and he has provided above and beyond, but I have lived a life alone now for 22 years and I really can't do it any more. Am I being so selfish? It has been a long hard road but only ever wished to spend my life with the man I fell in love with, but I'm nothing more than an empty shell, unable to deal with hurting the guy, with my only desire to escape from the lonely existance and to find happiness as we live life today.

I'm currently in lodging with my younger daughter, lost my eldest daughter who refuses to return to the UK, and he is still working away. What would you do?

Remain in the lonely split family thrash making wrong decisions or stay put in a loveless lonely set up (he loves me, I love him but by no means IN love with, due to everything being my fault somehow).

Any advice on the matter will be greatly appreciated,

Thanks.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009):

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Just noticed this is my daughters account, so i am not between 13 & 15, please amend.

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