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writes:Hi my friend he's been on and off with his girlfriend for 5 years!they again recently split up because she said he doesn't make her happy.he said he still loves her and she wants to still be friends he said he can't do it.but they met up again last night both arranged it and she was on her phone all night pretty much and now she's telling him she want to be back with him and still loves him and misses him but she's scared because they weren't happy before.but my question is there any point in them dragging on this relationship?i mean on and off for 5 years? she tells him he dont make her happy now she wants him back?whats her point like?i think she's playing him.wht you all think?i don't want him hurt again because he's my mate and a really cool guy.would appreciate any help.no spitefullness please not nesscessary
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (17 April 2009):
 Sorry but there's nothing you can do about this. I agree that it sounds like this girlfriend is playing with him so it's very likely he WILL get hurt but what can you do about it? It's his choice. Do you care for him MORE than just as a friend perhaps?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questiondude i know i am looking out for himi'm not saying its my businessi don't want him to be hurt once again.i wanted to know what people thought.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (16 April 2009):
I guess since he is your friend you feel involved in this but you really aren't. It's his relationship and all you should do is just be there for him if he needs someone to talk to. It does sound like a rather unhealthy relationship, but once again, it's his business not yours.
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