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What should I do now?

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Question - (16 April 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 16 April 2009)
A female United States age 26-29, *lli100 writes:

Heyyyy.....

i need to know what i should do...

Im 15 and my boyfriend is also 15, we have been together for 9 months. We had PROTECTED sex on March 14 and i missed my period and i got alot of pregnancy signs. I took one preg. test Tuesday morning and it was NEGATIVE then i took another one This morning ( Wednesday ) and it was also NEGATIVE. BUT i still have all these signs of being pregnant and still havent gotten my period. idk if the tests are right or not because they were the cheap tests.

So the thing is, idk if i should just believe the tests and go on feeling like this. or if i should take more tests.

And i would go to the doctor to see for sure but i cant tell my mom yet until i know for sure.

So just wondering if anyone can help me out a little.

Thanksss : )

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (16 April 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntGo and see a Doctor, home test kits aren't always 100% accurate and it's quite common to not follow the instructions quite properly and get an inaccurate reading.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009):

lady bug you should go see the doctor. good luck

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A female reader, Alli100 United States +, writes (16 April 2009):

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Hey Yall : )

Thanks for all the advice. im gonna answer as many of the questions yall asked as i can....

-So i did tell my boyfriend and hes all for being there for me and helping me through everything.

-And my periods are usually always normal.

-And while we were having sex the condom kept slipping down and im scared his stuff could have gone in me then. but im not sure.

- And my other signs are nausea, headaches / backaches, i pee more than normal, i crave food ALOT but then when i smell or see it a get nauseas, my belly is getting bigger but it may just be because im a pig lol, im gaining weight, im really emotional and my boobs hurt kinda but not horrible.

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A female reader, mts9290 United States +, writes (16 April 2009):

You said you have "pregnancy signs," but what do you mean? What signs specifically?

Are you on the birth control pill?

So you had protected sex...did the protection break?

I'm 18 and I've been in your position once or twice before. Sometimes women miss a period for wierd reasons like stress or just a change in hormones.

I wouldn't worry about it too much, especially since you have taken 2 pregnancy tests and they both came back negative.

I know it would be hard, but maybe you should just tell your mom so she knows what's going on.

Hope this helps :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009):

have you ever had periods that are not on a regular cycle. i really don't think you are. Honey look at what you have said. You had PROTECTED sex.

You have take 2 preg.test and both were NEGATIVE so it really don't have anything to do with the price of the test you have taken 2 of them. It will be ok i don't think you are pregnant. what other pregnancy signs to you have. You are just worried about it and it is dwelling in your mind.

Don't worry about it. If you are still worried after hearing the responses you get from here then i would go to the doctor. You will never be able to rest until you do. But I think you will be alright. From what you have said you took all the right precautions. did your protection break, tear, rip or anything happen to it. it not you are just worried because of missing your period.

It could be your periods are irregular. mine were i never had one at the same time every month, until i went on birth control pills.

maybe you should go see a dr. and find out why you missed your period if this is not normal for you. Good Luck sweetie.

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A female reader, brogz United Kingdom +, writes (16 April 2009):

brogz agony aunthey babe

well firstly if the boy u had sex with dont know that u might be i think u shud sit him down and telll him.

most probably u are not pregnant as u took 2 pregnancy tests and because ur 14 ur period may not be regular yet so it cud just be that , or a whole range of things why ur period is late, like diet and stress..

i would wait and don't go to ur doctor coz doctors u hav to have ur mum ther go to a family plan clinic and they will help you. and u dont have to tell ur mum until u know for sure.

tbh i dont think u s hud be havin sex at all FAR too young,

well good luck, hope everything works out well.. x

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