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writes:I've been having trouble with my trust issues with my husband and now I found that he answered a question that was asked online by a girl is this really something to be mad over and should I approach him about it? I'm really upset about this! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2009): you know your hubby best, i am also certain that you do not like him talking online and that is your perogative. just tell him.
not all online chatting leads to cheating, but if you have trust issues just nip it in the bud. now.
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reader, marauders13  +, writes (16 April 2009):
Hello. I think that your just being a slight bit paranoid. He is your husband and so hen knows his limits and by answering a question asked by the opposite sex doesn’t necessarily mean that there is anything going on. Have you considered the fact that he was just answering the question in general? However, i do advise you that you just confront him and just ask him in general. Like I said, I don’t think you have anything to worry about. Hope this helps. ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009): yes ...plzzzz give more details ... i forgot to ask ..what Question did she ask ???
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009): I've answered literally hundreds of questions from women on this site, both publicly and privately, over the last two or three years. My other half doesn't have a problem with that. I've never met any of them, had some fun with a few, those that I've actually spoken to I can count on the fingers of one hand, and I've got close to one or two with shared interests but that's it.
I can't see why you should be mad at him for something that was innocent - if indeed it was innocent - and done no harm. I wonder what the question (and the answer) was?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (16 April 2009):
 More details needed!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009): I dont think. there is anything wrong about it. I am sure their a lots of Husbands out here in the site. who are helping very many people from there problems. If you are doubting. i think being his wife... you do have the right to find out what question he answered of hers. in order to resolve the situation. I would say .. confront him about it. But dont show him .. that your doubting him. Ask him casually about whats goin on ...
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reader, PeanutButter +, writes (16 April 2009):
 What sort of question, where, on a forum? in an email? what was the context?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009): I don't quite understand.What was the nature of the question? Unless it was illicit or adulterous in nature, it doesn't sound like he has done anything bad at all, so try to calm down.
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