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What on earth do you think he's up to? It sounds very dodgy to me!

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Question - (16 April 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 17 April 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi, this is really weird. The other week I had a fight with my boyfriend, afterwards we made up and he made out he wasn't still mad, but he made this phone call in front of me just before I left his house. He mentioned a "sick plan" and some man - let's call him X and gave me some evil look. Anyway as I left his house there were these two guys hanging around outside, then I noticed them getting on my bus - I was freaked out and decided to walk to the local station and get the train instead, but just after I got off the bus, this man came up to me and started chatting me up, as I was thinking what to say to get rid of him he announced his name was "X" [it's not a super common name either} so I continued to walk with him, hoping I could find out what was going on -STUPIDLY I ended up in his car and allowing him to give me alchohol - the next thing I knew I was waking up to find him having sex with me - I'd missed the last train and I was drunk so I stayed the rest of the night in the car.

The next day he said he'd drive me home but he had to pick up someone first - he picked up the people from outside the house! They were talking about "Y"- a name that sounds like my boyfriend's name being a pimp and making out X payed him to sleep with me - I was obviously supposed to think I'd heard something I wasn't supposed to but they wanted me to understand -as if they were talking in some code, they could've said it in polish - they were all polish obviously, I got X to let me out the car and made a mental note of his car reg. I walked all the way home taking an unnecessarily long route but the car seemed to be following me cos I saw it 5 times.

Of course I told my boyfriend everything but he was a lot more mad about the accusation than the fact I slept with someone else and he said "watch what happens to you if you ask me that again" what on earth do you think is going on and what should I do? I don't think he is a pimp but he does have a lot of money despite not working so I think he's into something dodgy.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2009):

This story is so disturbing for me. Lifetime would buy your story in a minute for the newest drama movie. What your going through is sick and wierd. Get out of that relationship unless you need all that attention and confusion in your life. You may have been drugged, girl!!

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A female reader, FLAgirl1113 United States +, writes (16 April 2009):

Wow! It's surprising that that is all that bothers you. The entire situation is crazy. Why would a "boyfriend" pay someone else to sleep with his girl? No man wants to see his woman with another man. I think you just took the bait...for whatever reason he was testing you in the first place. I think I see why. Good luck hun.

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