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writes:hey, ok i have a problem with myself. i am really slim but my mom is really slim aswell so it kind of runs in the family. no i am not anorexic and i don't have a eating disorder, i eat like a pig infact and just comfort eat but i dont know where it all goes! i have turned 15 years of age this year, i am about 5 foot something in height and way just over 6 stone. is this really bad? the other problem is that i am 15 and i have never even kissed a boy! now come on thats bad surely? its not that i dont want to its just the fact that i havent met that certain someone. i have been asked out a few times but i didnt like the lads in that way. i am the onlyyyy person i know that hasnt kissed or had a boyfriend. its weird. am i weird? xxx
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reader, babi-girl +, writes (27 May 2009):
 babe, your fine i was 16 when i had my first kiss and boyfriend. i was like you didnt think id ever get there and thought i was alone but trust me yours not there are many other girls out there that havent. just make sure your first kiss is special like mine was because it is worth the wait if you love htta person and know your gunna be with them for a long time. dont be afriad to say that you havent boys appricate it and believe its a good thing when they know you havent been "round the block", and it shows that your not a slut and your not easy which a many girls are now. so dont worry just enjoy being young and single and just have some good times going out with your mates x
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009): love dont worry im 14 to
iv never snogged anyone
iv kissed onthe lips
i regret that becaus eit was the wronge person
but iv not found the right person to share the experience with
i worry about it sometimes but when i look at all the comments for your question and it doesnt worry me now
and i know theres all people in your year well in our year you will probs know have gone all the way they proberly dont even know who there first snog was with
dont worry wait for the right person andthe right time :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009): also, i was 12 when i had my first kiss and i regreted it soo bad becasue it was with the wrong person.
i kinder just forget about that one and count the second as my first but no matter what your 1st will always be you 1st so make sure itts with the right person babe ;x
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009): im exactely the same. im thin but i eat so much, and not just healthy foods, loads of CHOCOLATE! my parents say its becasue i do alot of excersise, but i don't really do much anymore tbh, so i have no idea where mines going either :Lim just over 5foot and i way more than that but just don't worry. try and eat a bit more, not necerserially bad foods good foods awell but lots of them :)your not weird. everyone is ready at different times. just be yourself and im sure you'll find the right boy and when you do, don't be scared about kissing him it will just all come naturally.
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reader, Hasden  +, writes (16 April 2009):
 I 1st kissed at 16 and I'm still alive and especially if you want to 1st kiss with someone, do it with one you really love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009): Seriously DO NOT worry about any of this, I am a 14 year old girl and I have always been very very skinny compared to most people, I get nasty comments made about this all the time.As for not having kissed a boy, it really doesn't matter! My first boyfriend who I had been dating for several months broke up with me two nights ago, he was my first kiss and now that I have seen his true colours I wish I had never done anything with him.It is best just to live life and do what YOU want to do, there is no sense in getting so obsessed (not that you are) over something like kissing that you get drunk at parties and just kiss anyone who is there, its really not worth it.
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reader, Klevis +, writes (16 April 2009):
First, about the eating thing, 6 stone is completely fine. Im super slim and eat at least 3 times as much as any of my friends so thats normal, you should consider yourself lucky that you don't have to constantly watch what you eat.Secondly, being kissed by a boy doesn't really matter. Who cares, it won't kill you that you havn't been kissed, im 14 and havn't kissed a girl yet and i don't mind. I don't want to go around kissing any girl that asks me out. Ive had plenty of girls show interest in me and I could have easily gone out with them and taken it far. But I want to remember my first kiss shared with a special person. And as other people have said in this thread, there are plenty of other people that havn't kissed anyone and are just lying about it. Heck even i do it(feel really bad afterwards though)
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009): Dont worry...ive been in only one relationship, despite it last a couple years, and i should have ended it because she wasnt phsyical and we never kissed once and it hurt lots when she wanted to break cause she wanted a 'change'...so dont worry, i still havent lol
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reader, lovechocolate +, writes (16 April 2009):
Don't worry im turning 16 next month and still haven't kissed a boy.
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reader, jellybeans  +, writes (16 April 2009):
no worriesNobody asked me out or showed any interested in me in the first 18 years of my life but now I don't have any problem getting anybody who I have crush on. =)
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reader, stayanon  +, writes (16 April 2009):
 I was the same and then funny how it happens but 16 and boys were everywhere! You THINK you are the only one who hasnt been kissed but I lied and said I i'd kissed a boy at 13- most of your friends will have done this too! I think its nice you said no to some guys cos the temptation is to just "get it over with" and then you end up with this horrible first kiss memory with a guy you dont like!
Wait for the butterflies!
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (16 April 2009):
 hun i am 20 years old i've never had a proper kiss from a lad!no it's not bad shows you are waiting for it to be special with someonethat's what i am doingi don't want to go around kissing random people it has NO meaning in it.i want something i know that will last and have meaning.but i mean if you think that's sad then you must think i am pretty darn sad.but you shouldn't care if it's weird.it's not weird i am like the only girl in my group of friends but i don't carei know i am waiting for the right person and i want that to be special.shouldn't worry so much,
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reader, we-are-nowhere  +, writes (16 April 2009):
 not at all , 15 is really young , i got my first kiss at 19 .. totally normal
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