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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hi,i like my friends cousin i've been talking to him recently and we get on so well i took my friend to his house other day as she wanted to see them and he come over to my car and took my car keys out the ignition and was like Ha you got to come in now to get them but anyways.we've been talking a bit and we get on well and stuff we have the same sense of humour and randomness to be honest.now i don't want to buil my hopes up for him liking me as he could just be being nice to me.my friend offered to talk to him to find out if he does like me i said um ok if you want but i'd rather give it a bit more time and talk to him a bit more and stuff.but she seems a bit edgey towards me i said i was sorry if i kept going on about him and she said no it's not that just if anything dosn't happen i don't want it to ruin our friendship and i told her that i wouldn't do that i'd just be glad to know whether to move on or not. she said doesn't mind me liking him just afraid what it will do to our friendship but i'm not that kind of girl i mean if i know fine i'll still be his friend like if he doesn't like me in that waybut she still seems a bit edgeyi'm not sure what else to do to be honest?is she worried that if anything happend i would hurt him?or he would hurt me and we wouldn't talk?i mean does he even like me in that sense?or am i reading too much into it?would really appreciate some advice im a bit clueless when it comes to things like this.please no nasty comments i've seen some harsh one on here and i don't care for that type of attitude you got nothing helpful to say then please don't say it AT ALL i don't have time for people being rude.Thank youuuuX
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (16 April 2009):
 to be honest hun i think she's just looking out for you trying to keep your best interests at heart,she obviously treasures your friendship and doesn't want anything to cause friction should you and her cousin become more than just friends.i think she's just looking out for you hun she's not trying to be edgey or anything she clearly just values your friendship with her and loyalty.and as for him liking you well maybe just give it that bit more time and see if any other signs come up.keep me updated would love to hear what happens :)Hope this helps.xxx
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