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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Me and this boy have been talking and we want to move to oral sex! Well I really don't know what to do when doing a blowjob. Can anyone tell me how because I don't wanna look like a complete fool and not know what I'm doing. Please help!
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reader, FLAgirl1113 +, writes (16 April 2009):
Oops...didn't check out her age.
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (16 April 2009):
 You have known this guy for 2 minutes and already you want to perform oral sex on him? Oral sex is for ADULTS and is a very intimate expression of how you feel about one another. You are far too young to be doing this. The very fact you have to ask this question shows you're not ready. RETHINK!!!~Eve~
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reader, FLAgirl1113 +, writes (16 April 2009):
Funny topic. My advice:
1) Make sure he's clean. The experience is more tolerable/enjoyable if he's fresh.
2)start slow. Guys hate it when you rush...like you're trying to get it over with. They like to get the impression that you're enjoying it too (and some women actually do). But even if you don't, just GO SLOW initially, he won't know.
3) Don't just put him in your mouth. Lick the shaft with your tongue, like a lollipop, for a minute or so. Men also LOVE it when you explore the testicles with your mouth. Play with them a little. If he's clean, then you won't mind being down there. You'll like the pleasure it gives him.
4)Gather as much saliva in your mouth as possible (don't let him know you're doing it) and slowly insert him as deep as possible to lubricate it.
5)Now here's the main part. Once you've gotten it wet, place your right hand at the top of the penis, right below the head, place your mouth on the penis (head). Your lips should be touching the thumb and index finger of your hand. DO NOT DISCONNECT YOUR LIPS FROM YOUR HAND! As you move down slowly, your hand should move with it. To him It will feel like all of him is in your mouth...which is not true. He just feels the warmth of your hand and wetness from your saliva. DO NOT HOLD HIM TOO TIGHT! But not too loose either. My ex use to ask me to hold him tighter...but let him tell you that.
Hope this helps.
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