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My b/f has a very high sex drive and I can't keep up. What should we do?

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Question - (16 April 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 17 April 2009)
A female Australia age 30-35, *urplecloud03 writes:

hey everyone.

my problem involves my boyfriends sex drive. im 19 and he is 22, been going out a few months. He has an extremely high sex drive, and we have just talked about it and he told me that he has lost all his past girlfriends because of it, and lost potential girlfriends because of it.

He is so upset he is going to lose me because ive complained about how often he expects sex from me. and not just sex but oral sex. sometimes ill go over and he will be so horny that i cant touch him cos it makes him worse.

He has told me that he realises he has a problem because he simply cant control it no matter how hard he tries. he says that if he is doing a last minute assignment he will get urges and has to go and fix himself up because he simply cant concentrate.

now i want to try and help him as much as i can but i cant constantly be giving him sexual release because thats not fair on me. Should i see medical advice? im trying to figure some sort of compromise but cant thing of anything.

i really need some help here. thanks

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A female reader, purplecloud03 Australia +, writes (17 April 2009):

purplecloud03 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

purplecloud03 agony auntahh im not too sure, but he thinks that he isnt normal that he has to do it so much. so im assuming its alot? i think he is always horny.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009):

Just how often are you talking about?

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A female reader, purplecloud03 Australia +, writes (16 April 2009):

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purplecloud03 agony auntthanks for the suggestions but he is complaining himself of always having to jack off, he is sick of having to do it so often.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009):

He should go talk to his doctor about it. In the meantime tell him to either jack off or get some toys so you don't have to give him sexual realease constantly.

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