I've fallen in love with my teacher... and it's not just a crush!
Q. Hey everyone...I have a big problem. Im truly in love with my teacher. I know, I know, you are all going to say "no no, its a crush" but its so much more than that...trust me. I fell head over heels over him when we first started talking. I can tell ...
A. 20 April 2007: that's crush, eating and typing....... (read in full...)
I've fallen in love with my teacher... and it's not just a crush!
Q. Hey everyone...I have a big problem. Im truly in love with my teacher. I know, I know, you are all going to say "no no, its a crush" but its so much more than that...trust me. I fell head over heels over him when we first started talking. I can tell ...
A. 20 April 2007: It's just a cruah, and most people go throught it...I mean for crying out loud just look at the responses you've gotten...lots and lots of teacher crushes... (read in full...)
He has a fiance and I'm happy being second best
Q. im in love with my teenage sweetheart only problem is he is engaged and gettin married soon. we went out when we were younger but never had a proper relationship as i was too stupid to admit my feelings for him. been txtn him everyday and he came to ...
A. 14 November 2006: I'll bet his soon-to-be wife won't be happy to know that you are second best. Find a man of your own.... (read in full...)
I insulted her figure during an argument! How should I apologize to my gf?
Q. My girlfriend and I are the quintessential right brain/left brain couple. I was a Math major in college, while she majored in English literature. She's very good in the spoken/written word, while I'm more of a numbers guy. Well, a few days ago we ...
A. 14 November 2006: Apologise, but I'd be slightly more concerned with her slapping you. I think she owes you an apology as well.... (read in full...)
My fiance's ex interferes with our lives and I don't know if I can cope!
Q. Hi, my fiance is still not divorced from his ex wife. She has clinical depression and had an affair on him, that's why they split up. Every week she texts him as though they still speak. She continually gives him a hard time about the children...
A. 14 November 2006: How can he be your fiancee if he's still married? What's the hold up on his divorce?... (read in full...)
Everyone thinks I'm lying about my bra size!
Q. I have a 30F chest, however it only looks about a 32C, the other day, my friends were going round asking what bra size we all were, and I told one of them she didn't believe me at all. And although i told her not to tell anyone, i think she told ...
A. 14 November 2006: Get yourself accurately measured, I highly doubt that you are a 30F.... (read in full...)
He makes excuses so I can't go to his place - do you think he still lives with his son's mother?
Q. Hello, I would like to ask if my man is being secretive about his living situation? We have been together six years and my boyfriend comes to my house at least five times a week. But there are at least two days that he doesn't come by or call. He ...
A. 14 November 2006: This has been going on for 6 years?! Wow! You really need to sit down and have a nice long chat about this. I mean 6 years and you haven't seen where he lives? Never met his son? Weird.... (read in full...)
My long distance lover type guy won't let me come to his city!
Q. my not really a boyfriend more of a lover type guy is very sweet and attentive. it's a long distance relationship. he comes to see me on average every 5 weeks from late friday night to early sunday morning. we always have a great time (i know i do, ...
A. 14 November 2006: Definitely fishy. Why don't you just drop in on him one weekend and see what happens. Yep I think a surprise visit is just the ticket. Let us know what happens.... (read in full...)
Caught by bf wanting to cheat on me by using a fake online profile! Now what?
Q. Help! I did a terrible thing. A friend of mine told me the guy I'm living with has a reputation for being unfaithful. I didn't believe her because he's been nothing but wonderful to me. But my curiousity got the best of me and I created a fake ...
A. 14 November 2006: Oh yes, I say meet up him. You shouldn't feel a moment's guilt,outsmarting someone is nothing to be ashamed of. Prove him to be the cad that he is.... (read in full...)
After my abusive relationship ended, I can't get back to my normal happy self. Please help!
Q. I spent twenty plus years as a battered wife. Broken nose, teeth, the lot. i finally got away over 10 years ago and i still have the traumas in my head. Is there any way i can get myself better? I suffer from depression on a daily basis and i don't ...
A. 14 November 2006: Not without professional help. You need to go to a qualified therapist to get rid of all your ghosts. You will be amazed how fast you start to feel much better. Make an appointment today. Good luck, honey I'm glad you made it out alive, sadly so ... (read in full...)
I've fallen in love with my teacher... and it's not just a crush!
Q. Hey everyone...I have a big problem. Im truly in love with my teacher. I know, I know, you are all going to say "no no, its a crush" but its so much more than that...trust me. I fell head over heels over him when we first started talking. I can tell ...
A. 14 November 2006: Boy oh boy you need to talk to "blondeladie" she post this same thing over and over. Find her in the Forbidden Love section...you two can fantasize till your heart's content.... (read in full...)
I want my ex back even though he cheated on me - should I follow my head or my heart?
Q. I know I should stay away from my ex, but he's single again now and I know I have a chance. He always treated me well, but cheated on me a week before we broke up, and cheated on his girlfriend with me a few weeks back. I know this is really bad ...
A. 14 November 2006: Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me.... (read in full...)
I ended our 6 year relationship now I want it back but she doesn't want to see me!
Q. I am 31 and was in a relationship with my ex for 6 1/2 years. For a while things didnt seem great. No arguments or anything but it seemed stagnent, a bit boring. Other girls turned my eye more than my girlfriend but i never acted although it was ...
A. 13 November 2006: Nothing to do but wait and hope for the best. Of course if it never happens you will have wasted lots of precious time. You say she loves you, maybe she does but is determined to get over you because the trust is gone. Who knows? It's your call but ... (read in full...)
Why does my bf act so differently now? Is it because I get so jealous?
Q. My bf has totally changed way he acts, now i am always accusing him and getting jealous and the other day he said he doesnt love me as much as used 2. So i dnt give him any space its cos i love him and there is distance. he is always talkin to ...
A. 13 November 2006: You'd better back off or you'll lose him to your worst fear. I mean if he's going to be accused of cheating anyway, why not do it? You need to explore yourself and find out why your self-esteem is in the toilet. Poor self-esteem is 99% behind any ... (read in full...)
He ended it, then texted that he loved me, then said sorry about that! What do I do??
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend of 8 months about a month ago. It was his decision and he texted me early yesterday morning to say 'I miss u x' and then 6 hours later he texts, 'Just read my sent messages. i'm soo sorry for sending that. totally not ...
A. 13 November 2006: He just doesn't want you to get the wrong idea. He doesn't want to get back together but he obviously thinks about you. I'd say try to keep moving on with your life and let him make any moves. Stay busy then each day gets easier. Good luck. ... (read in full...)
He is disrespecting me and I found viagra and a girl's phone number in his car! I think he is cheating on me!
Q. Hi I wonder if there is anyone out there that can help me. My husband used to be so loving and caring, now since we got married he just seems to be like a jekel and hide i never know where i stand with him from one day to the next. He tells m...
A. 13 November 2006: Wowie I can't believe he would actually say something like that to you, or put you down in front of people but then claim he loves you. I'm afraid you have stumbled into another abusive relationship. You need to do some hard thinking here. Can't say ... (read in full...)
Does my teacher fancy me and I'm wondering...do I love him?? Help me understand my feelings.
Q. I fancy my teacher to bits, I think he might fancy me too but he is a teacher so it’s hard to decide. Everyone says hes a perv but i really like him. I spend evenings with him. He is really clever he loves to hear what i think. We’ve grown really ...
A. 13 November 2006: Well, well here you are again. And once again you aren't getting the answer you want from anybody but you are getting the same answers aren't you? I feel very sorry for your teacher, you sure are a persistent child!?... (read in full...)
She said she has skeletons in her closet but won't tell me what they are!
Q. Pls Help !! Hi , I have an issue with the relationship i'm having. My girlfriend is 29 now, i'm 23 and we're thinking of getting married in a few years. I love her dearly and believe it or not, we were both phyisically virgins before we met about 1 ...
A. 9 November 2006: Okay this is your second post (back to back) about this. I think you are way too obsessed with this whole thing. I don't think she needs the counseling nearly as much as you do. You need to truly find out what's behind your motivation to discover ... (read in full...)
I've been deleting her messages without telling him. Is this right or wrong?
Q. I've been living with this great guy now for about a year. We met 2 years after he went through a horrible break up with a woman who completely devastated him, both financially and emotionally. The thing is, she's been calling our house lately and ...
A. 9 November 2006: I second everything Yos the fish said. That's the plan to go with, honey. Your guy will understand. ... (read in full...)
Does horny goat weed actually have an effect?
Q. hi everyone, does horny goat weed really have an effect during sex? if so, how?...
A. 9 November 2006: Horny goat weed? Ha, ha, judging by it's name it probably has an effect on goats.... (read in full...)
I was a virgin when I married... And I'm still a virgin two years later!
Q. Dear Cupid, I am 30yrs old and have been married for two yrs. I was a virgin when I married and remain one now. I had not had sex before marriage because I considered it a sin and have been brought up in a loving religious family.I had man...
A. 9 November 2006: If you don't love him then leave him. You really don't have to explain yourself but since you haven't consummated the marriage and therefore will get an annulment, people will probably figure it out on their own, but who cares? You deserve to be in ... (read in full...)
He dumped me... will he ever come back?
Q. my boyfriend of 4 yrs just broke up with me almost a week ago he said it was because I kept on accussing him and he was tired of always going to sleep mad I tried to get him back and I started crying and he said he was not going to call me anymore ...
A. 9 November 2006: The more you tell us about your relationship the more I wonder just why you'd want him back. It doesn't sound like you were very happy to begin with. Maybe this break up is the best thing that could have happened to you. You are feeling sad and ... (read in full...)
I feel like his babysitter how do we overcome this!
Q. im confused about my feelings when my fiance of 5 years goes drinking without me. im always invited to go and sometimes i choose to stay at home or do something else. im some what okay with him going. i have no reasons to distrust him. but i get ...
A. 8 November 2006: It's a good thing this behavior is going on before you have married. You need to have a heart to heart with the guy and discuss what you expect from each other. You shouldn't be his nurse, mother, alarm clock. He has responsibilities in this ... (read in full...)
My ex invited me to a family party. Is there a chance for us?
Q. My boyfriend and I broke up almost 4 months ago now but we still remain friends and still love each other very much. He's invitied me to a family party this weekend for the first time since we broke up. Could this be a slight indication that he's ...
A. 8 November 2006: Could be an indication, just go and find out. He may be feeling better about himself and you, so why not go with him? Good luck (and thanks for giving me the information).... (read in full...)
My ex invited me to a family party. Is there a chance for us?
Q. My boyfriend and I broke up almost 4 months ago now but we still remain friends and still love each other very much. He's invitied me to a family party this weekend for the first time since we broke up. Could this be a slight indication that he's ...
A. 8 November 2006: Why did you break up to begin with? ... (read in full...)
Weight loss advice anyone?
Q. whats your advice for someone trying to lose weight? coz ive tried everything!...
A. 8 November 2006: My way isn't the healthiest but it is very effective, Skip breakfast and lunch, Drink diet soda, take aspirin with caffeine in it, eat a very light dinner. Do this until you reached the weight you'd like then drop another 5 lbs. You can then eat a ... (read in full...)
I don't want to date my sugar daddy, but i want him to keep buying me stuff!
Q. I'm 18 and a student at a university. One of my teacher's assistants is this guy Paul. One night I went out with Paul for drinks and his friend Jimmy came along. Jimmy paid for all my drinks, and even though I wasn't attracted to him, I let him. ...
A. 8 November 2006: Sorry but I don't believe this is true, I think your are sharing your fantasy.... (read in full...)
I'm falling in love with my exes best friend but he has a wife!
Q. I was with my ex for a few years, and I fell out of love with him. I have got on with his best friend really well since we got together, and this friendship has turned into more, well for me anyway. A few months ago I told him how I felt when we ...
A. 8 November 2006: Don't do it, you'll regret it if you do. He will only be using you for sex and that will break your heart. Let him know you don't think it's a good idea to start this up then stop contacting him, and don't respond to him. Stay busy with your life, ... (read in full...)
She is with someone who doesn't appreciate her, but I love her! Please help!
Q. Hi I have a problem similar with Jim and Pam from the show "The Office". The only thing is that I never told her that I loved her. Her name is Kassie and my name is Steven. We've been friends for God knows how long and she knew that I liked her in ...
A. 8 November 2006: Write her and tell her how you feel about her and let her know that you respect that she is in a relationship right now but if in the future things don't work out for that relationship, then she should look you up if she's interested. The ball will ... (read in full...)
Do most guys shoot their load early the first few times?
Q. Do most men have the problem premature ejaculation the first few times they have sex (like when your a virgin)...
A. 7 November 2006: oh yeah...I think it's because they can't believe they got lucky ;... (read in full...)
What is skinny-dipping?
Q. What is skinny dipping as i heard it from my friends...???...
A. 7 November 2006: That would be going for a swim in the nude.... (read in full...)
I've not told my fiance about my one night stand! Should I tell her?
Q. Please help! I have been with my girlfriend for 4 1/2 yrs. We got engaged a week ago, but I can't stop thinking about the fact that I have not been entirely honest with her about my past. I had a one night stand with a girl back in college. I a...
A. 7 November 2006: Are you nuts? Zip your lip! The past is just that...past. It would serve no purpose to drudge it up. Just enjoy today and tomorrow.... (read in full...)
My husband's brother and his fiance are having a baby and I'm having a miscarriage! How can I handle this?
Q. Hello. I'm in the middle of having a miscarriage (it started last night) and it's the most heartwrenching experience of my life. Nobody else but my husband knows that I'm pregnant - I mean nobody knows that I WAS pregnant - because it's been hard ...
A. 7 November 2006: I'm so sorry your baby wasn't meant to be. The pain is terrible I know. But you will recover and will be able to conceive again and I'm sure you'll be fine. Women have miscarriages often without even knowing they were pregnant. It does not mean you ... (read in full...)
I want to wish my first love the best in her marriage - would it upset her?
Q. Nothing matches the thrill of my first real love I met a girl in the first year of my university course 13 years ago. She was friendly and popular and had a socially prominent group of friends, whereas I was quiet and reserved but passionate. ...
A. 6 November 2006: Nothing good can come from you contacting her, you won't get that "magical sweet tingle" either. 13 years ago! You are living in the past. Be assertive by getting out there and by meeting new people. Stay out of the past and keep moving forward. ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid my husband might hit me! What should I do?
Q. I am having a lot of arguments with my husband and I don't know what to do anymore, I am afraid he might hit me one of these times, what should I do?...
A. 6 November 2006: You can't wait for the first time he hits you, it could be the last...permanently. You guys need to separate for awhile and sort out why you are arguing so much. Sign up for some marriage counseling and go together. But time apart is very important ... (read in full...)
He's afraid to commit! Will I ever be number one, in his life?
Q. Hi where do i start. Well i have known this bloke now for 2 and a bit months and i really like him but more then just a mate. We see each other nearly every weekend when he does not have his son. I really him and i want it to be more then mates tho. ...
A. 6 November 2006: I'm assuming that it is his son who is number one. I'm also afraid that he may be quite content with the way things are, I mean he's gets to have sex with no commitment or strings, right? What on earth would make him want to change things? It's the ... (read in full...)
He loves to hunt and fish...but I hate it when he leaves town to do this! What can I do?
Q. my boyfriend loves to hunt and fish. he knows that i don't mind if it is local. i don't like for him to go away for 2 or 3 nights. i sometimes think that he wants to do this more because he knows that i don't really care for this. how do i take ...
A. 6 November 2006: Wow, you guys are haveing a real power struggle aren't you!? Why don't you tell him you want to go with him next time. If you don't fish/hunt then bring a really good book and enjoy the fresh air. I'd give it a try anyway.... (read in full...)
He dumped me... will he ever come back?
Q. my boyfriend of 4 yrs just broke up with me almost a week ago he said it was because I kept on accussing him and he was tired of always going to sleep mad I tried to get him back and I started crying and he said he was not going to call me anymore ...
A. 6 November 2006: The best thing you can do at this point is to do nothing. He needs time to think, let him have it. If you try to contact him you will only push him further away. Meanwhile why don't you concentrate on why you are so needy and controlling. What were ... (read in full...)
He points out all my body flaws and it's soo hurtful! What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend is 48. And I am getting more and more despondent and discouraged with this relationship, as time goes on. He keeps on making hurtful, digging little remarks about any flaw, on my body. I had cancer surgery back in 1993 and I have a ...
A. 6 November 2006: LOL but as far as the squid thing, Lemonpixie said that yesterday and I keep looking at my husband and giggling. Anyway keep us posted on how things are going for you, you're a nice lady.... (read in full...)
I crave sex with everyone but my gf! Help!
Q. why do i find that i always go off sex with my girlfreind but crave it with every other person.can any one help?...
A. 6 November 2006: I agree with the aunts, you just plain shouldn't be in a relationship. Cut her loose so you can play the field without breaking anybody's heart. Just don't be telling lies or making false promises to the ladies, now. Not everyone has to be in a ... (read in full...)
He asked someone else out - what is he trying to tell me?
Q. so there's this one guy that i like and he was interested in me as well. we've known each other for like 3 months now and we weren't going out but we hooked up.. well i thought he was gonna make his move and ask me out from there but it didn't ...
A. 6 November 2006: He probably isn't trying to tell you anything, he most likely didn't have a clue that you cared this much for him. Now all you can do is remain friendly and wait and see if he and his current girlfriend split up. Don't just sit on your fanny though, ... (read in full...)
I'm worried because I did bad things as an adolescent!
Q. i am 19 year old and some wrong work in adolscence life and i am very worried. if you do not understand my problem then i explain later. ...
A. 6 November 2006: Huh?... (read in full...)
I've fallen for my sex buddy! Is this a waste of time?
Q. ok, so where do i start??? so i met a guy about 2 and a half years ago. i did the wrong thing and slept with him after our 1st date! since then we have become shag buddies but i have fallen for him big time!! i heard he has had a g/f since we met ...
A. 6 November 2006: Stop the sex and see if he still seeks you out for your company alone. If all he sees you for is the sex then you'll just have to decide whether you can settle for that or whether you are worth more. Personally I think you are. Good luck.... (read in full...)
He points out all my body flaws and it's soo hurtful! What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend is 48. And I am getting more and more despondent and discouraged with this relationship, as time goes on. He keeps on making hurtful, digging little remarks about any flaw, on my body. I had cancer surgery back in 1993 and I have a ...
A. 6 November 2006: Tell him his penis looks like a squid (per Lemonpixie) then show him the door! Good luck with your new life. You go girl!... (read in full...)
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