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writes: Hi I have a problem similar with Jim and Pam from the show "The Office". The only thing is that I never told her that I loved her. Her name is Kassie and my name is Steven. We've been friends for God knows how long and she knew that I liked her in the past. The reason nothing really happened between us is because that she didn't want to ruin our friendship in the first place. She dates this guy that doesn't seem to appreciate her as much as I do. Right now I moved to LA for college and she remains back in my hometown. I moved to LA hoping that I would get over her and move on....but little did I know, when I go back to my hometown to visit, these feelings get stronger and stronger. It even makes it harder for me to leave her because I love this girl now. I am hurting everyday because of the fact that we are not together and that she has a boyfriend. Somebody please help me. Thank you for your time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2006): Well, I know how you feel, longing for someone, not being able to have them actually makes your passion for them grow stronger....I would ask her out on a date, somewhere where you could talk to her and tell her how you feel...go easy at first, just ask her what she thinks about taking your relationship to the next level, that you have had feelings for her that just keep growing, and you would like to know if she feels something for you as well.
She may come around, but you will never know if you don't take that risk, I know it is scarey, and even if she at first rejects you, she may have some time to consider what you said and may decide to take the risk with you as well.
Boyfriends are not always the person that she may want to be with, but just is because he is just there, you never know.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (8 November 2006):
 Write her and tell her how you feel about her and let her know that you respect that she is in a relationship right now but if in the future things don't work out for that relationship, then she should look you up if she's interested. The ball will be in her court but you should be prepared for the fact that she may be perfectly happy with her boyfriend. Good luck.
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