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writes: Hi where do i start. Well i have known this bloke now for 2 and a bit months and i really like him but more then just a mate. We see each other nearly every weekend when he does not have his son. I really him and i want it to be more then mates tho. But he has said to me before when i ask him if this could be anymore the mates and sex buddies he said he likes the way things are and is scared of commitment and does not want a relationship. I think he is like this more because of his ex the mother of his son she cheated on him in the past and i dont think he want it to happen again. Well the relationship we have now is realy good and is like a bf gf relationship but i just want to know if he will change and want to commitment to me in the furture. ps i know one thing and i understand this i know i will never be his number one.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (6 November 2006):
 I'm assuming that it is his son who is number one. I'm also afraid that he may be quite content with the way things are, I mean he's gets to have sex with no commitment or strings, right? What on earth would make him want to change things? It's the "why buy the cow" thing. Of course it has only been a couple of months so I guess you might want to see what develops later down the line. I do think that eventually you may have to put your foot down and insist on a commitment on his part or move on.
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