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writes: I spent twenty plus years as a battered wife. Broken nose, teeth, the lot. i finally got away over 10 years ago and i still have the traumas in my head. Is there any way i can get myself better? I suffer from depression on a daily basis and i don't want to take medication. I have a great new bloke now but I can't possible tell him some of the things that i have had done to me so i keep them stored in the back of my head. Do you think there is anyway i can get myself back to being the normally happy bubbly person i used to be?? help Reply to this Question
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (14 November 2006):
 Not without professional help. You need to go to a qualified therapist to get rid of all your ghosts. You will be amazed how fast you start to feel much better. Make an appointment today. Good luck, honey I'm glad you made it out alive, sadly so many don't.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2006): The pain from the past might hurt this relationship if you dont get some help,counciling could do the trick just for you to go back over and let the past be laid to rest once and for all!!! and there is no shame in what you went though. If you trust your new man tell him he could be very heplfull to have a shoulder to cry on and it will help your new relationship become stronger not all men are pigs you must learn to trust yourself and men again good luck!!!
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (14 November 2006):
 i am sorry to hear what you have been through but i think the ONLY way forward for you is to get professional help you should go and talk to your doctor and see if they can get you referred you really need to deal with what you have been through and the only way to do that is by talking about it and i know you said you do not want to tell your new partner but the emotional support may be of great help to you whilst dealing with this.
all the best
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