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writes: ok, so where do i start??? so i met a guy about 2 and a half years ago. i did the wrong thing and slept with him after our 1st date! since then we have become shag buddies but i have fallen for him big time!! i heard he has had a g/f since we met but he has never admitted it to me and i have never seen her!! i know that he likes me and he says its more then just sex to him which i totally believe. we see eachother quite often and its mainly him making the contact. He knows how i feel about him but says he is committment phobic and also he has had a bad childhood and so i think that that has also affected him relationship-wise! so am i an idiot and wasting my time on something that is going nowhere or do u think he will wake up 1 morning and realise he wants more?? Reply to this Question
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reader, bonym  +, writes (6 November 2006):
 This isnt good, I dont believe in "sex" buddies because sex is so intimate it is inevitable that you will start to develop feelings for him and if he has a girl, then he is a loser and a jerk for cheating on her and sleeping with you. Why dont you just be partners and not just sleeping partners, dont you think a relationship should be more than just a quick "meaningless" fumble every now and again, be together PROPERLY if thats what you both agree on. xXx
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (6 November 2006):
 Stop the sex and see if he still seeks you out for your company alone. If all he sees you for is the sex then you'll just have to decide whether you can settle for that or whether you are worth more. Personally I think you are. Good luck.
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reader, rachroo +, writes (6 November 2006):
 hello i understand what u r going through i wish i could say one day he will wake up and realise but u dont know what the furture holds. have u sat down with him and told him what u feel for him.
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