He points out all my body flaws and it's soo hurtful! What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend is 48. And I am getting more and more despondent and discouraged with this relationship, as time goes on. He keeps on making hurtful, digging little remarks about any flaw, on my body. I had cancer surgery back in 1993 and I have a ...
A. 6 November 2006: LOL but as far as the squid thing, Lemonpixie said that yesterday and I keep looking at my husband and giggling. Anyway keep us posted on how things are going for you, you're a nice lady.... (read in full...)
I've fallen for my sex buddy! Is this a waste of time?
Q. ok, so where do i start??? so i met a guy about 2 and a half years ago. i did the wrong thing and slept with him after our 1st date! since then we have become shag buddies but i have fallen for him big time!! i heard he has had a g/f since we met ...
A. 6 November 2006: Stop the sex and see if he still seeks you out for your company alone. If all he sees you for is the sex then you'll just have to decide whether you can settle for that or whether you are worth more. Personally I think you are. Good luck.... (read in full...)
My bf takes his anger out on me and wHen I take it to heart he calls me mental! Advice please?
Q. My partner yells at me and calls me names like, idiot and stupid and it doesnt matter what form of employment i am in he calls me a failure. I often wake up feeling worthless and feel too tired to get out of bed as though i havent slept. He ...
A. 6 November 2006: Not sure if you can make him stop, he has anger issues. But what you can do is give yourself a breather. If you are living with him then find your own place for awhile. Just give yourself some space so you can do some thinking and so can he. He ... (read in full...)
Is there any way to lose weight off my big butt?
Q. I have a big butt. I'm 5 foot have 32 C cup and am really skinny other than my butt and my boobs. I was wondering if there was anyway just to lose weight in your butt... without making it bigger I'm not complaining or anything i just would like ...
A. 6 November 2006: Do the exercises suggested below but know that lots and lots of men like a woman with junk in her trunk!... (read in full...)
coffee on teh first date...but why is he too cheap to take me to dinner for a 2nd date. Should I ask him?
Q. I'm going on my second date with a man that I met on-line (we are both middle-aged). We met for coffee on our first date. However, we are going out for dessert on our second date. He is quite comfortable financially as he owns a home, is a ...
A. 6 November 2006: I agree with the aunts, you need to take a chill pill and go with the flow.... (read in full...)
He points out all my body flaws and it's soo hurtful! What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend is 48. And I am getting more and more despondent and discouraged with this relationship, as time goes on. He keeps on making hurtful, digging little remarks about any flaw, on my body. I had cancer surgery back in 1993 and I have a ...
A. 6 November 2006: Tell him his penis looks like a squid (per Lemonpixie) then show him the door! Good luck with your new life. You go girl!... (read in full...)
Trying hard to avoid a crush at work as I'm married with kids! Any advice ?
Q. Hi there. I'm A happily married man. I dearly love my wife and we have 2 beautiful children. We are together since we were 16 and have never had any other partners. However I have got this wee crush on another Woman in work. I know its a non r...
A. 5 November 2006: Keep this to yourself. Crushes come and go so just stay the course and this one will disappear as well. Pay more attention to the wife and this will help get rid of it too. Good luck, buddy.... (read in full...)
I want opinions on whether he holds feelings for me too!!!
Q. This is about a certain teacher who I feel that I am in love with. My question is however not concerning my feelings towards him or even perhaps whether or not a relationship between us is possible or even morally wrong. I would like to describe ...
A. 5 November 2006: One last thought, make sure you give this site to your mom. Maybe we can be of service to her.... (read in full...)
Shall I trick him into having a child?
Q. i have been with my parnter for about two years, and i really want a baby with him and he wants to wait another two years before trying and i want one NOW, i have thought about telling him i am still taking the pill when i wouldnt be, but then when ...
A. 4 November 2006: No child deserves to be brought into this world as part of a trick. Wait the two years and have both Mom and Dad on the same page. It will definitely be worth it plus two years will fly by. Spend the next months buying baby stuff that will keep you ... (read in full...)
My guy doesn't like oral because...he doesn't like the way a vagina looks! What is wrong with him??
Q. Is my fella under-confident with giving me oral sex, or is he just a selfish lover? He's gave it to me twice in 15 months.He says he doesnt like the look of a vagina, cos it looks sore? Hes good at it and ive told him.He'll do it 4 me on my birth...
A. 4 November 2006: Squid....I'll be using that, count on it! You don't have a copywrite on that do you, Lemonpixie?... (read in full...)
My guy doesn't like oral because...he doesn't like the way a vagina looks! What is wrong with him??
Q. Is my fella under-confident with giving me oral sex, or is he just a selfish lover? He's gave it to me twice in 15 months.He says he doesnt like the look of a vagina, cos it looks sore? Hes good at it and ive told him.He'll do it 4 me on my birth...
A. 4 November 2006: Squid....I'll be using that, count on it! You don't a copywrite on that do you, Lemonpixie?... (read in full...)
I want opinions on whether he holds feelings for me too!!!
Q. This is about a certain teacher who I feel that I am in love with. My question is however not concerning my feelings towards him or even perhaps whether or not a relationship between us is possible or even morally wrong. I would like to describe ...
A. 4 November 2006: You know what? After all this...I'm just plain bored. Good luck with your obession.... (read in full...)
He's got a wife and family and I want him back. Is there any way I can do this?
Q. Hi there, I met this guy a few months ago who I thought was separated with his wife and had no kids. He initiated it. But soon he told me the truth that he's not legally separated and that he has a kid. We got along very well, feeling that we are ...
A. 4 November 2006: He is still lying to you. His wife cannot set the visitation rights, the court does. He will only get supervised visitation if he has ever abused or neglected the child otherwise the courts will be even handed in the matter. If you really want this ... (read in full...)
How do I stop being so jealous? I keep picking fights and want to stop!
Q. I'm too jealous! I was burned a few years ago when my boyfreind of 3 years cheated on me with my best friend (and as it turns out, countless others). Now I have the best guy in the world and just refuse to accept it. He has never given me reason ...
A. 3 November 2006: Jealousy comes from low self-esteem. What is it that makes you feel insecure about yourself? If you can't figure it out then you may need some professional counseling to get to the crux of the matter. It doesn't matter who your boyfriend is, if you ... (read in full...)
I want opinions on whether he holds feelings for me too!!!
Q. This is about a certain teacher who I feel that I am in love with. My question is however not concerning my feelings towards him or even perhaps whether or not a relationship between us is possible or even morally wrong. I would like to describe ...
A. 3 November 2006: Tell me something, is he married?... (read in full...)
My bf is not answering my calls or texts! What is going on?
Q. me and my boyfriend have not been together for very long and everythings been going really well this past week he hasn't been talking to me i'v tryed ringing him and text messages but no replys i really like him and im not sure what to do can you ...
A. 3 November 2006: Stop contacting him, let him come to you. This doesn't look very promising so be prepared for the worse. Don't stay home waiting, get out and do stuff with your friends. He does owe you an explanation for his behavior but you'll only get when he's ... (read in full...)
He's got a wife and family and I want him back. Is there any way I can do this?
Q. Hi there, I met this guy a few months ago who I thought was separated with his wife and had no kids. He initiated it. But soon he told me the truth that he's not legally separated and that he has a kid. We got along very well, feeling that we are ...
A. 3 November 2006: He wasn't telling you the truth all along. You have been duped by a married man. Happens all the time, the lying bastards. Pull yourself up by your boot straps and vow never again. Good luck. ... (read in full...)
Because I didn't have a threesome with my hubby, he won't have sex with me anymore!!
Q. I have been married to my husband for 24 years. I love him more than anything in the world, and I have never been out on him. We used to watch porn movies, and fantasise about bringing another female into our bedroom to share, and play with. Because ...
A. 2 November 2006: I say stand your ground, he's trying to get his way by witholding sex, how infantile is that!? Tell him that a threesome is out and you guys need to move on with your marriage, if he refuses then it's time to consider a separation. I think you will ... (read in full...)
I might be pregnant but I've been drunk in the past month! Will this affect the baby?
Q. Hello. I'm wondering how long or how much alcohol it takes to affect a fetus. I'm on the pill and I am late with my period now by two weeks. Last month was my birthday (I got drunk at my party - I'm in my mid-20's) and occasionally I h...
A. 2 November 2006: Well good luck with your test! I'm sure you'll have a perfectly lovely baby now or in the future!... (read in full...)
I might be pregnant but I've been drunk in the past month! Will this affect the baby?
Q. Hello. I'm wondering how long or how much alcohol it takes to affect a fetus. I'm on the pill and I am late with my period now by two weeks. Last month was my birthday (I got drunk at my party - I'm in my mid-20's) and occasionally I h...
A. 2 November 2006: I'd be sure to mention to the doctor that you are on pill however. By the way how did you get pregnant if you are taking the birth control pill?... (read in full...)
I told my BF a big secret - was it a mistake?
Q. In a relationship 5 yr only 20 now. I kept a secret for 2 years from my boyfriend and I couldnt keep it any longer so I told him. It was not my fault what happened I never wanted it to happen, it involved another lad nothing like it has ever ...
A. 2 November 2006: Probably not, but if you couldn't keep it a secret I guess that's it. I hope he deals with it okay. Good luck.... (read in full...)
My four friends had the same dream as me!
Q. Hi i keep on having this dream about me and my ex boyfriend having a baby boy. Now my lucky number is 7. I had this dream 8 times already. My other four friends also had the same exact dream on the same night and they described the child it was ...
A. 2 November 2006: It means you and your friends are getting some quality sleep.... (read in full...)
I get homesick very easily. What can be done about this?
Q. im 15 and when i stay out i get homesick its so embarassing what can i do to put an end 2 this ive tried ringin my parents at night and a photo but it just makes me worse or doesnt change it at all...
A. 2 November 2006: You are still very young, this dependence on the security of home will slowly dissipate over next few years. You may always be more of a homebody but it will not be quite so intense. Just keep going out with your friends, relax, and have fun. This ... (read in full...)
Saw a text telling another woman he loves her!
Q. My boyfreind and i have been together for 2 years a couple of weeks a go i went into hi9s phone and saw a text telling another woman that he loves her. I know he loves me, but sometimes when i say to him I LOVE YOU he doesnt even answer me,he loo...
A. 2 November 2006: Hummm I guess it's time for you to ask him that question. He may have a good answer as to why he said that to the woman but you do need to find out what's going on. Don't accuse just ask, okay? Good luck.... (read in full...)
I want opinions on whether he holds feelings for me too!!!
Q. This is about a certain teacher who I feel that I am in love with. My question is however not concerning my feelings towards him or even perhaps whether or not a relationship between us is possible or even morally wrong. I would like to describe ...
A. 2 November 2006: Honey that's what everyone is trying to tell you. We've ALL walked around in those shoes you are wearing right now. You have a typical school girl crush on your teacher. It will pass and you'll be saying the same thing in the future to another young ... (read in full...)
I have the chance to make my marriage work but deep down inside..I want my gf back. What should I do?
Q. I have finished with a girl who i have been seeing for 18 months, the relationship was one where i did not commit fully as i was still seeing my seperated wife, as friends nothing else, recently i made the decision to end it with my girlfriend, and ...
A. 2 November 2006: Well man, piss or get off the pot! Can't be fence sitting forever. Make up your mind whether to move on or to work on your marriage you owe your wife that much. Good luck.... (read in full...)
I want opinions on whether he holds feelings for me too!!!
Q. This is about a certain teacher who I feel that I am in love with. My question is however not concerning my feelings towards him or even perhaps whether or not a relationship between us is possible or even morally wrong. I would like to describe ...
A. 2 November 2006: Sigh...a child in total denial...case closed.... (read in full...)
He made me get an abortion - now he's gotten another girl pregnant and she's keeping the baby!
Q. I am confused! My fiance and i have been together for 2 years i got pregnant a year in to our relationship i was excited about it,however when i told him he was not so happy ,he wanted to get married before we had any children.He told me it w...
A. 2 November 2006: I'd definitely put this relationship on hold. His cheating on you must be addressed first. If you think you can ever forgive him for it then that's one thing, however you won't ever be able to forget about it because his child will be needing ... (read in full...)
She had anal sex with him, but won't with me!
Q. Anal Sex my girlfriend had anal sex before i was with her she said it hurt so much never again but now i'm kinding of thinking well if she tried it with him why not with me am i being mean to think that? ...
A. 2 November 2006: If it hurt why would you want her to go through it again? If she said never again then I guess no means no.... (read in full...)
I feel like I need to pull away from him to prevent me getting hurt!!!
Q. TORN................... I really don't know were to start for the most part of my life I've been able to handle me. I developed a non-dependant personality I guess you could say. However I am 6 months pregnant with twins and live with the their fa...
A. 2 November 2006: I can advise you on one point, it is really risky to buy a house together when you aren't married or in a permanent relationship. You may have difficulty recouping your money if things go awry.... (read in full...)
What can a girl do to make her breasts grow bigger?
Q. what should a girl do for her tits to grow bigger?...
A. 2 November 2006: There is nothing you can do. It's all in your genetics. There are a lot of phony products that make false claims about increasing bust sizes so don't throw money away on them. When you are done growing you can consider plastic surgery but most ... (read in full...)
I want opinions on whether he holds feelings for me too!!!
Q. This is about a certain teacher who I feel that I am in love with. My question is however not concerning my feelings towards him or even perhaps whether or not a relationship between us is possible or even morally wrong. I would like to describe ...
A. 1 November 2006: oops that's TEACHER... (read in full...)
I want opinions on whether he holds feelings for me too!!!
Q. This is about a certain teacher who I feel that I am in love with. My question is however not concerning my feelings towards him or even perhaps whether or not a relationship between us is possible or even morally wrong. I would like to describe ...
A. 1 November 2006: Listen, it doesn't matter whether you think he "fancies" you or not, it's against the law for a techer to have anything but a professional relationship with a student so let the guy keep his job and move on. Get a hobby or something.... (read in full...)
Should I accept the downgrade to "friends" from my affair guy?
Q. Hi all, I am married and I have been having an affair for the past 10 months. I know its wrong and I have learnt to accept that. I fell in love with the new man. About 6 weeks ago, his attitude towards me changed.He keeps on saying he has to work ...
A. 1 November 2006: awww poor you. Only you can help yourself. They only people who deserve sympathy here are his and your families. ... (read in full...)
He loves porn..he texts other women in chatrooms and he says he does it because....he's just messing about??? I feel worthless-what should I do?
Q. hi im recently married to a man i love very much and i know that he loves me to however he loves to look at porn on the net and also texts to other women through chat rooms also the women have sent him rude pics of themselves. i have confronted him ...
A. 31 October 2006: I agree with KellyO, you need to lay down the ground rules right now in the beginning of your marriage. Let your husband know that the texting and the picture exchanging is to stop immediately. Explain how this is demeaning to you and causes you to ... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a girl ......
Q. Ladies. what does it mean when a girl smiles at you and sits next to you even if there are other seats...
A. 31 October 2006: It means you should chat her up and maybe ask her if she would like to go for a cup of coffee or a soda. That is if you're interested as well.... (read in full...)
Does having sex make breast tenderness (due to PMS) better? Any thoughts to share?
Q. Is it better to stay in the house or to go to the gym when you have an awful breast tenderness associated to the premenstrual syndrome, does sex make it better or worse I cannot stand touching me that area those days or about having sex is it ...
A. 31 October 2006: Well if you asked my husband that question, he'd say that sex makes any condition feel better, headaches, stomaches, cut fingers, doesn't matter just have a little sex and you'll feel better. LOL But he may have good point in that sex releases ... (read in full...)
Brotherly love
Q. I have been involved in a sexual relationship with my younger brother for nearly twenty years now. We first had sex when he was twelve and I sixteen. I became pregnant with his child and gave birth to a healthy baby boy. Unsure as to what I should ...
A. 31 October 2006: See! He's/she's going to post again in a couple days! Obviously someone just looking to get their rocks off. And just as obviously NOT someone looking for help or advice. To "Viona and Lincoln" (whatever) Why don't post your drivel on a nice incest ... (read in full...)
Who do I choose-my wonderful new man or my husband who left me for another woman?
Q. My husband left me for another woman, I was devastated but eventually tried to move on and even began seeing someone else. Now my husband has left the other woman and says he@ll do anything to get me back! I am very confused and dont want to hurt ...
A. 31 October 2006: I agree with Irish (as usual). Your husband has shown his true colors. Your new guy sounds like the salt of the earth, I'd hang onto the guy with honor and integrity. Let the guy who thinks with his johnson hit the road. Good luck!... (read in full...)
I can't just forget everything in a minute
Q. i have a very strange problem i love my bf he loves me too but offlate we have been fightin a lot for stupid reasons we make up at the end but then when he starts makin me feel good i kind of feel awkward and i back off, it has never happened to me ...
A. 31 October 2006: People are different when it comes to anger management. My husband has a pretty short fuse but once he blows his top he is right back to normal. I, on the other hand, am much slower to anger but it also takes me longer to cool off and get over it. I ... (read in full...)
I'm jealous because he can't let go of the mothers of his children
Q. i met my partner two and a half years ago, we had an affair, he left his wife and moved in with me eighteen months ago. he has two children with the wife and another little one who lives ten minutes from us. my problem is that neither of the two ...
A. 31 October 2006: Sorry but I'm a firm believer that you reap what you sow. You broke up his marriage so the wife is repaying you in the only way she can. If he wants to see his kids, your boyfriend has to play by the wife's rules. Guess you will just have to live ... (read in full...)
Need to tell this guy, I don't want a relationship. How can I do this?
Q. I'm still in love with my ex bf, but i'm not telling anybody because I know that everyone will disapprove as they think I can do better (and he has a gf so I can't do anything about it). My ex's mate who I was into once has been showing an interest ...
A. 31 October 2006: If he invites you somewhere, just tell him no thanks you've got other plans. After being turned down a couple of times, he'll get the idea. Although staying busy is the best thing to mend a broken heart so you may want to take him up on an ... (read in full...)
I want opinions on whether he holds feelings for me too!!!
Q. This is about a certain teacher who I feel that I am in love with. My question is however not concerning my feelings towards him or even perhaps whether or not a relationship between us is possible or even morally wrong. I would like to describe ...
A. 30 October 2006: "Other displays of adoration" I'm sorry but you've simply got a over-blown school girl crush. He's not playing games with you, he's simply an over-worked, underpaid, school teacher who happens to care about his students, ALL of his students. Trust ... (read in full...)
Brotherly love
Q. I have been involved in a sexual relationship with my younger brother for nearly twenty years now. We first had sex when he was twelve and I sixteen. I became pregnant with his child and gave birth to a healthy baby boy. Unsure as to what I should ...
A. 29 October 2006: I agree with Max, I think this is from the same person who is just using this forum to get their rocks off. When there are sooo many sites on the internet to post crap like this it is a shame that he/she found us.... (read in full...)
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