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writes: im in love with my teenage sweetheart only problem is he is engaged and gettin married soon. we went out when we were younger but never had a proper relationship as i was too stupid to admit my feelings for him. been txtn him everyday and he came to mine once and we slept together. hes said he doesnt want to leave his fiancee but he has lots of feelings for me too and doesnt want us to end either! im happy to be in his life even if i am 2nd best.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (14 November 2006):
 I'll bet his soon-to-be wife won't be happy to know that you are second best. Find a man of your own.
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (14 November 2006):
 Hi dearie,
are u really? happy to be a second best.i sincerely dont think so unless u wouldnt have a posted a question here if u are content.
Seriously,i think u deserve to be with someone who will be totally devoted to you. i know u really like him alot but if at all he is going to get married then he is a lost cause. After a while u will start feeling as if u are on the sideline. How long will you devote you life to him knowing you are always going to be the other woman?
it honestly isnt my wish to criticise you but i just want you to know how he might be taking advantage of the situation, knowing how much you care about him and using that to get what he wants.
DO take time to think things through and if at all he wants to go ahead with his marriage i would advise u to relinquish hope and move forward with your life to a more fulfiling and rewarding relationship with a guy who would see you as his first and only choice.
Goodluck dear.
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