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writes: I know I should stay away from my ex, but he's single again now and I know I have a chance. He always treated me well, but cheated on me a week before we broke up, and cheated on his girlfriend with me a few weeks back. I know this is really bad because it means I can't trust him, and trust is the foundation of every relationship, but being with this guy makes me so happy, and no one and nothing else has ever made me feel this way before. Should I follow my head or my heart?
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reader, HONEST JULIE +, writes (14 November 2006):
 my dear i would say follow your head because if he can chest once he can do it over and over again and if you take him back he knows that he can get away with it
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (14 November 2006):
 Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me.
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reader, msel2304 +, writes (14 November 2006):
 Once a cheater always a cheater. I mean he cheated with you on his ex-girlfriend. He repeated it. I say theres not hope for him. Follow your head on this one, kick him to the curb and take a stand. If you wanted to be treated like dirt, you'd be a doormat. And if you do decide to go back with him and he does it again then thats all on you and not him because you put yourself in that situation. Good luck though! :)
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reader, lovestough +, writes (14 November 2006):
i always say once a cheater always a cheater but this is not always the case. if you love him and he loves you then give it another chance. tell him he must earn your trust though. he cheated on you and you shouldnt let him away with that but he obviously made a mistake as he cheated on her with you which sounds like he always wanted you and she was just a test to see how much you actually meant to him. only you know if you can trust him and make a go of this, your heart will tell you what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2006): I have an EX husband like that who made me feel the way you do when with him. In my experience they do not change. What one has to do is to find a way to make oneself happy. A partner should enhance ones life in every way and we should never look to another to fulfill us or to make us happy. One must learn t love oneself before others can truly love us.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2006): Keep away.He is a born cheat and you are just as bad! He cheated on his gf with you, what a pig. He will never be anything. What do you like about him? There will be other blokes out there who are not cheats, treat you better and you will learn to respect yourself and others.
Take care
xx
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