Married gals! Would you be upset if your husband had a habit of winking at other women?
Q. this is a question for married women- would you be bothered about your husband as a habit of winking at another woman (just one in particular)?...
A. 18 January 2007: I'd tell him to knock it off, and that it makes him look stupid and makes you uncomfortable. I think winking is so infantile.... (read in full...)
My guy on the side makes me feel special even though he only wants to have sex with me in the car. What should I do?
Q. I am having a affiar with a 26 year old man. He has a girlfriend and two kids. I have a bf of 3 years i luv him to bits, but he doesnt make me feel special any more and the 26 year old does. Even tho he is just wantin sex i still enjoy being with...
A. 18 January 2007: You have sex with this guy in a car and that makes you feel special? Special Ed maybe. Wise up sugar.... (read in full...)
He doesn't know that I'm aware that he's a cross dresser! Do I tell him I know?
Q. I have been married for some time and never really had a great sex life with my husband. I think I did not really fancy him enough from the start and probably should not have married. We went without sex for most of our marriage (due to me)and are ...
A. 18 January 2007: Hello? His cross dressing is the least of your problems here. Sheesh! you are married and so is he so until both of you get a divorce..hands off. We can address cross dressing issues when you are both free to pursue a relationship.... (read in full...)
Was battered for 20 years.. can I claim against him now for my medical problems?
Q. I was a battered wife for 20 years before i got up the guts to get away, by then our kids had grown up and left home. But i suffered from all sorts of problems now. I had a broken nose and now have to go back and have work done on it. Several broken ...
A. 18 January 2007: You need to speak with an attorney, he/she will be able to ascertain whether you have a case or not. One that specializes in personal injury, Good luck and let us know what you find out. I for one sure hope you can sue the socks off the ass-wipe! ... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and pregnant! My bf wants to keep the baby, but I don't know if I'm ready.
Q. Me and my boyfriend have only been together for 4 months and im 16 and pregnet! I dont no if im ready to have a baby but he rele wants one he is 18 and has lived his teen life and mine has just started but i no that i want to be with him but im ...
A. 18 January 2007: Why do YOU have to raise the baby, if he wants it so bad let him raise the baby after it's born, you can have visitation rights.... (read in full...)
How should we deal with his jealous and vindictive ex-wife?
Q. HOW to survive the jealous ex wife? what i dont understand is also that now she has a bf for the last 2 months , some doctor she has been seeing so she should move on.... not interfere in our lives or our happiness.The kids spent 2 days in 14 day...
A. 18 January 2007: Thanks for the information It is important for the other aunts to know as well. Since you got involved with him AFTER he left his wife, I certainly can say she sounds like a nutcase. She has absolutely no right to bad mouth you but I don't know what ... (read in full...)
How should we deal with his jealous and vindictive ex-wife?
Q. HOW to survive the jealous ex wife? what i dont understand is also that now she has a bf for the last 2 months , some doctor she has been seeing so she should move on.... not interfere in our lives or our happiness.The kids spent 2 days in 14 day...
A. 17 January 2007: Did he leave his marriage to be with you?... (read in full...)
My husband keeps meeting up with his ex, I try not to let it bother me but truth is it does.Why does he want to keep meeting with her?
Q. My husband texts his ex girlfriend and meets her every week. He doesn't think I should be jealous about this. I try not to let it bother me as he is genuinely in love with me. However, I can't get over the fact that he would even want to meet ...
A. 17 January 2007: I like Daysie's idea. Invite her over for a nice dinner and see what's going on. At least you will know then if there is anything between them more than friendship. Good luck.... (read in full...)
I find my husband-to-be an irritating little nerd... give me a wake-up call
Q. I find my bloke an irritating little nerd! Honestly, we are getting married in 8 weeks time and he gets on my nerves. He picks at my son (aged 15). States all the jobs he is 'going to do' and nothing gets done. He works shifts and sometimes we don't ...
A. 17 January 2007: Call the wedding off.... (read in full...)
Would my man be embarrassed to receive roses at work?
Q. I want to send the man I love a bunch of roses, just cos im a bit of a soppy romantic and want to suprise him. However he is at work all day and so if I sent them to his home he wouldnt get them. Do you think it would be too embarrassing for him to ...
A. 17 January 2007: Just took an office poll and all the guys said you shouldn't do it. Take him out to lunch instead.... (read in full...)
Am I being petty? Tell me what you think.
Q. Hi. Am i being petty? I went with my partner to his works do on saturday night. We went last year and it was fantastic, he was so attentive to me. We have been together now 20months and engaged. Well, a woman who he gets on well at work sat on our ...
A. 17 January 2007: He certainly was very rude responding to your question but if he doesn't usually respond rudely I'd let this one slide. If he frequently treats you with disrespect then you'll need to address it.... (read in full...)
What should I do to make things right after I made a fool of myself in front of his parents?
Q. ive been going out with my BF three months now. Last nite we went to meet his parents for the first time!!! long story short...i was demonstrating this kick boxing technique to my BF's dad and i ended up accidently kicking him in the nuts!! I really ...
A. 17 January 2007: Sorry but that's TV Show funny! Don't sweat it, you just gave them a funny story to tell over and over again. They will appreciate you for it in the future.... (read in full...)
My bf is regularly talking to a female friend on the phone. Do you think he could be cheating?
Q. i have been with bf for 13 years. recently i found out i could screen his calls and found a number that hed been ringing 3/4 times a day i got a friend to ring the number and found it was a female.I have been having these dreams that he is cheating ...
A. 17 January 2007: If he hasn't mentioned this friend to you before and appears to be hiding her existence from you then you may have a problem. Calling someone 3/4 times a day is pretty weird unless he is having an affair. Not sure how you can bring it up without ... (read in full...)
I have a lot of guy friends and when I get drunk I end up sleeping with them. Do you think they are taking advantage of me?
Q. I have a lot of guy friends, and when we all get together we get really drunk. I usually end up having sex with one of them. I love my friends there my emotional support. I am starting to second-question that? I live with my roomate (who is guy) we ...
A. 17 January 2007: Your life is totally out of control. You need professional help my dear. Make an appointment with a therapist immediately. You may want to make some new friends as well since the ones you now have suck. Pick up the phone and good luck.... (read in full...)
Is this my period starting?
Q. Hi.... Well I am 12 and the other week, i found what looked like loads of dark blood in my pants,(It was at the front of the pants!) but i had diarea when it happend and i dunno if it was blood or just poo, as it hasnt happend since, and im reall...
A. 10 January 2007: For crying out loud, talk to your mother.... (read in full...)
My older friend just got engaged to his gf - now I'm distraught and don't know how to act around him!
Q. hi i am 17 years old i am in love with a older guy he is 30 and a really good friend of mine.We get on really well and he is always there for me and ready to make me laugh when i am down.i know we would be perfect together but there is one problem i ...
A. 10 January 2007: Sounds like he only thinks of you as a friend. I guess your best bet is to just accept that and try to relax and be friendly around him. In time you may actually just feel friendship for him.... (read in full...)
I tell my best friend who I like, then she goes and flirts w/ them in front of me!
Q. hello please will lots of people answrr as i would like a range of ideas please :(...... i dont no what to do, i tell my best friend i like some lads and she goes and flirts with them infront of me she's alot prettier than me and i have low self of ...
A. 10 January 2007: Doesn't sound like a "best friend" doesn't even sound like a "friend" to me. Keep your yap shut about the guys you like from now on or maybe steer her in the wrong direction, that could be very entertaining.... (read in full...)
He's a newly married man, should I risk getting together with him?
Q. i am in love with a newly married man he is 13 years older than me but we connect so well.the thing is he flirts with me too and told me that he really likes me.should i risk it and go with him or should i just leave it please help....
A. 10 January 2007: Drop it like a hot potato, no future here.... (read in full...)
He said he was single and childless, but he's married w/ a daughter! How can I trust him again??
Q. Do we have a future. My partner and I have been together for a year, he has lied constantly throughout his relationship, initially saying he was single and childless, as it turns out he is married with a 20 month old daughter. He told me in March ...
A. 10 January 2007: You will have to be constantly checking up on his activities, phone calls, whereabouts, purchases...etc Do you really want to live like that?... (read in full...)
Not sure if I want to have a boyfriend in my life...is this normal?
Q. Hi! I was told to keep my question short, so I'll write in point form. -I'm 19, attractive (at least I like to believe so), sometimes shy -the problem: I've never had a boyfriend -I actually dated 2 guys, one for 2 months, and the other one for....
A. 8 January 2007: You are just fine. You just simply have not found the right guy yet and aren't settling for less. Just relax and have fun being single while you can! You go girl!... (read in full...)
Any ideas on what to get my sister for the opening of her new medical practice?
Q. Hello, I just need some opinions, it's simple really. My sister will be opening her medical practice next month, and I'd like to get her a "welcoming gift" of some sort, for her office, what would be nice, and all ideas would be greatly appre...
A. 8 January 2007: I know I can't live without my coffee maker at work.... (read in full...)
I do have savings right now. Is it smarter to rent for now or buy a house?
Q. My boyfriend and I both decided to live together very soon. He used to have a high paying job, but he has decided to go back to school for 4 years. I still live at home right now. My boyfriend said he might not be able to help with money while he's ...
A. 8 January 2007: Yuna, look at your previous question for my reply.... (read in full...)
If we live together, I may have to pay the expenses as he's in school. My parents will disapprove..any advice on how to deal?
Q. I came from a pretty wealthy family. Not over the top, but quite comfortable. My parents really want me to marry someone that will provide me with a comfortable lifestyle. I'm planning to move in with my boyfriend, but he doesn't have money (but not ...
A. 8 January 2007: I think it would be helpful to know how old you guys are, how long you've been together, whether you are absolutely sure that you want to pay for everything, and whether you are sure that your boyfriend isn't using you for a meal ticket.... (read in full...)
I think I'm in love with my sister-in-law! Please help!
Q. I told my sister in law that i fancy her a couple of months ago she lives 200 miles from us but i can't stop thinking about her sexual ,i am married with a son but feel traped in the marriage very distent from my wife.My wife has put on weight that ...
A. 8 January 2007: Once again we have a poster who isn't remotely interested in getting any advice. Not sure he's even looking for approval, but maybe just getting off posting his situation. How tiresome.... (read in full...)
I hate being compared to his ex! What should I do?
Q. dear cupid, i always ask about my boyfriend's ex, but he can't even tell anything about what they've gone through and they were together for 1 yr. and 3 months. did he even love her? all he says is that she's really pretty she looks like this one...
A. 8 January 2007: You've put yourself in the 18-21 year old category. You need to strive to reach that maturity level, then you will realize how ridiculously you are behaving. For crying out loud quit asking your boyfriend stupid questions and try to just relax and ... (read in full...)
I want out of my marriage...how do I break the news to my wife?
Q. I've been in an exclusive relationship with my current wife for more than 8 years. And I want to get out of the relationship, although my wife apparently very much wants to continue the relationship. What I want to ask is how specifically cou...
A. 8 January 2007: I'm uncomfortable with the casual way you use the word "relationship". This is a 8 year old MARRIAGE you are talking about. It's not to be entered into lightly nor is it to be dissolved with a snap of the fingers. You need to sit down with your wife ... (read in full...)
he kissed me goodnight on the cheek! Does that mean he's "not" interested?
Q. hey Meet this guy and he is so sweet was the perfect gentlemen during the date, but l was so shy and quite and they where very quite moments during the date, but opened up as the date was coming to an end, but when he dropped me off he shook my ...
A. 8 January 2007: AHHHH a true gentleman, a dying breed I'm afraid. Hope you can hang on to him. Good luck.... (read in full...)
He lies, he calls me names, he threatens me and it's like I am not important to him! What can I do? (Long)
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now and I love him with all of my heart and soul but he hurts me so much! He is always lying to me. He says he won't do drugs and then he goes out with his friend and does them, he never answers my calls ...
A. 8 January 2007: He says he needs help but I KNOW you need it. Your self-esteem is in the toilet. You have to work on that, therapy can help and there are all kinds of websites you can look at also. Once You see yourself as the wonderful person that you are, you ... (read in full...)
Worried I'm becoming obsessed by this guy who left me in the lurch... especially after things seemed so good!
Q. Hi, I can t' beleive the way I am feeling. I was seeing a guy who I met back in August and for a few months everything was so great and we were seeing one another 2-3 times a week. He told me he really liked me, thought I was amazing, etc. ...
A. 5 January 2007: Unfortunately things like this happen in the dating game. Sometimes things just aren't right for one partner but great for the other. It's just your turn to be on the receiving end that's all. You just need to try to get over it and keep moving. ... (read in full...)
Does he want to break up with me?
Q. I want to know if my boyfriend wants to break up with me? We went away for xmas - we had a huge fight - the first big one. We have been together for a year. The fight was that i received a text on my mobile phone from a male friend and told my ...
A. 5 January 2007: Give him the time and space to think. Trust is crucial to a healthy relationship so if he does decide to continue on with the relationship, please don't break that trust again. Good luck!... (read in full...)
He gave me money for my birthday. Now his mom thinks I'm sponging off him! What should I do?
Q. my partner is away overseas and i have recently had my hours cut at work.he gave me money for my birthday as i was having troubles paying bills. his mother now thinks that i am "sponging" off him. both myself and my partner are hurt over this ...
A. 5 January 2007: Assuming your partner is an adult, you need to keep his and your business private and away from mom's prying eyes. It really isn't any of her affair. How did she find out he sent you money? What she doesn't know can't hurt her or in this case, you. ... (read in full...)
I want a threesome w/ my fiance's best friend, but my fiance is jealous and possessive. Should I just get over my feelings?
Q. My partner and I have recently got engaged, bought a house and have finally decided to settle down after many years of playing the field. We have been together for a year now and I have so far felt that this is the last man I will ever be with. ...
A. 5 January 2007: I say you should do what you said yourself...get over your feelings and move on.... (read in full...)
We're both stuck for words!
Q. I have a new boyfriend since dec.21,06 and we never talk.I thonk its because hes REALLY shy and I just dont know what to say.When we see each other we dont ever say anything.I hardly dont know anything about him cause we never talk.What should I do?...
A. 5 January 2007: How on earth can you consider him a boyfriend if you guys never talk to each other? I mean for crying out loud how did you even figure out you LIKED each other without lots of conversations? One way to find out is to ask him about himself. What does ... (read in full...)
I've only just lost my virginity but he says I'm too loose and he can't feel anything!
Q. ok girls, I need some advice on a delicate subject ... Me and my bf started sleeping together a few weeks ago - first time for both of us. the problem is that i'm worried about whether there might be something wrong with me, and since he's my fi...
A. 5 January 2007: You tell him while you work on the Kegels he can use a penis stretcher to fix his teeny peeny, heh heh... (read in full...)
Ended up in bed with my (female) boss!
Q. I am in a real dilemma. I am a openly gay lady with a fantastic job. My problem is that I could have just thrown all of that away. I went for a drink with my female boss the other night as she wanted to say a job well done on a project I had comp...
A. 5 January 2007: Workplace romances are difficult at best. And if there is a falling out, you still have to work together! I guess I would try to talk to her and as gently as possible tell her the explicit emails make you uncomfortable and that for working hours you ... (read in full...)
My ex said he thinks of me and misses me, too. Does this mean something?
Q. Okay, I have written on here about my ex who broke up with me suddenly after 9 months stating that he couldn't see spending the rest of his life with me. Well, I finally have left him alone. Except, on Sunday I texted him just asking to pick up ...
A. 4 January 2007: I think he may be thinking about using you as a booty call so be very careful that he isn't out to use your affection against you. Just hang out with no sex and see what happens.... (read in full...)
My kids' father left 15 years ago and now he's back and in love w/ me. But he feels bad asking his current lover to move out!
Q. My 2 childrens father walked out on us 15 years ago and on Nov 7, 2006 came back into our lives. He owns a home and has a woman and her son (18yrs old)living with him. Not far from where we live. He says they are not happy and we have connected ...
A. 4 January 2007: Never gave you a dime for all those years? And you have totally forgiven him for it? Wow, you are better person than I am that's for sure! However, I certainly would put my foot down and tell him to piss or get off the pot. If he keeps stringing you ... (read in full...)
Is sweating part of puberty?
Q. is sweating related to puberty? if it is then does that mean that i will grow out of it?...
A. 4 January 2007: If it gets really bad, talk to your doctor because there is a pill that you can take to reduce the sweating.... (read in full...)
I can't stop flirting with the girl at work, but I'm happily married! What do I do?
Q. Ive been working in my new place for about 18 months now. My department is great and we all seem to get on. Im happily married and there is a younger girl in our department and things have gone where they shouldnt have. I like her and get on ...
A. 4 January 2007: What do you do? You knock off this nonsense and concentrate on your new job so you can get a promotion and and big fat raise and buy your lovely wife a pair of diamond earrings, that's what you do. Nuff said.... (read in full...)
Im 18, she's 13. I'm not thinking about sex but I want to know how to love her without her getting scared.
Q. Hey fellow romantics, I know a lot if most of you will feel Im in the wrong but that is not my question here. Ive been in relationships before and Im falling in love with a girl who is 13 and im 18. The question is that since we are both honestly ...
A. 4 January 2007: Come on man, haven't you heard of jailbait before? I don't know where you are but if you are in the US you best be aware that they are cracking down on child predators big time. It just isn't worth it, move on.... (read in full...)
I want to have a child with my ex but she is hesitant about it!
Q. Ok My And My Ex Girlfriend of 3 week's are over she doesn't wanna get back together that's fine by me. i keep saying 2 her we sould keep trying for a kid. y because i always wanted 1 and she want's 1. new year's eve i nearly got her 2 say yes i ...
A. 4 January 2007: To you last three questions...WRONG...NO...YES
This is one of the most cockamamie situations I have ever heard of. Please don't reproduce.... (read in full...)
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