I'm 13 and scared to lose my virginity
Q. I need some help, i'm 13 nd im scared ov losin my virginity. ...
A. 13 April 2009: Doesn't anybody look at the date?... (read in full...)
How do I enlarge my penis size?
Q. i am looking for a way to make my dick bigger i am 22 and it is about 5-6 inches and i am looking but dont know what to do about it can u help me ?...
A. 7 December 2006: I can't believe a 22 year old man is asking this question. Just be happy you have one and that it works, it doesn't make a bit of difference to a woman what size it is.... (read in full...)
I would never have an affair but this online guy I like is married! Should I stop talking to him?
Q. Hi, im in a really weird situation right now. Im 22 and i've had 2 failed relationships, i just ended the last one about a year ago. Just about 2 weeks ago i met this guy online and we begin chatting, he's married and he's also 36 years old. He told ...
A. 7 December 2006: You ask where this might be going, I'll tell you, no place good. Stop with this nonsense, you know better.... (read in full...)
I think he went to a bachelor party and lied to me about it last year - is it worth worrying about?
Q. I just started thinking about something. My b/f went out one night last year without me around this time of year. It was a friday. He said it someone's b-day. I didn't really like that he was gonna be going bar hopping. He said they were going ...
A. 7 December 2006: No.... (read in full...)
To parents out there--would you put your 16 year old daughter on the pill?
Q. would you put your 16yr old daughter on the pil...
A. 7 December 2006: As much as no parent wants to face it, kids are having sex so much earlier than we did as teenagers. I'd say you best go ahead and get her protected but just remind her that the pill only protects her from pregnancy not all those yucky STD's that ... (read in full...)
Having affair with a guy who I can never be with... He's in a loveless marriage - and he's a liar.
Q. Peter and I met 10 years ago. We had a strong connection but never dated. We lost contact for 10 years. Two years ago we met and fell in love. We are passionate and enjoy each others company. Here is the problem: We cannot be together because ...
A. 7 December 2006: Instead of being a "fairly intelligent woman" why not try being a REALLY intelligent woman and dump this lying slug. Then straighten up your own priorities and determine never to settle for being second best again. And by the way, they are always ... (read in full...)
She asked my bf if he wanted to go to the bathroom with her - should I tell my bf she made me mad?
Q. One night my b/f and i were at a club with his 2 friends and the friend's cousin who i have met about 3 times. At one point she is gonna go the ladies room with her friend and she asks my b/f do you need to go to the bathroom? To me that is being ...
A. 6 December 2006: Your boyfriend didn't go with her and turned her down so just let it go and and be happy. It was truly rude of her to ask him so whenever she's around keep your eyes open. But I think your boyfriend has shown himself to be trustworthy.... (read in full...)
Is cyber sex, online with different men considered cheating on my husband?
Q. is it cheating if you are going onto chat sites and chat to guys and talk to them in a sexual way. Sex with my husband is non existent and i feel its the only way i can get rid of my frustration. Yes i have tried to approach my husband to do ...
A. 5 December 2006: I would consider it to be cheating, would you have a problem if the tables were turned and your husband was the one talking dirty to other women?... (read in full...)
What is the ideal penis size?
Q. What do women consider to be an ideal penis size? My friend told me all women want a penis that's at least 8 inches long and 6 inches around. Is this true? I'm way below these numbers in both categories and I'm really afraid to have sex, now. Any ...
A. 4 December 2006: Honey could you bring me the tape measure? And hold still.... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and scared to lose my virginity
Q. I need some help, i'm 13 nd im scared ov losin my virginity. ...
A. 4 December 2006: You don't have to worry about this for quite a while. When the time is right you'll know it and have absolutely no fear. In the meantime just keep a nickel between your knees :)... (read in full...)
Bras hurt me and I just can't wait to take them off! What can be done?
Q. i cant wear bras, i tried 4 just a year, it hurts so much, i've even figured out a way to get my bra off with my t-shirt on since it is soooooo painful. it pulls in my chest so i cant breath i doesnt help becuase i have asthma. i have been fitted ...
A. 4 December 2006: Maybe you could try wearing a camisole with support built in. You can find them in most of the larger stores and chains.... (read in full...)
Will taking meds to stop a miscarriage make the child be born with problems?
Q. I've recently had a miscarriage and my doctor said that the next time I'm pregnant she will put me on medication so I don't lose the baby. I know that most miscarriages happen because the fetus isn't developing properly. So my question is - if...
A. 4 December 2006: There are many reasons for miscarriages one of them being low level of progesterone that keeps the lining of the the uterus in place and stops menstrual cycles. It has nothing to do with fetal development. Your doctor can answer all your questions ... (read in full...)
I've unawarely fallen in love with a married guy...I don't know what to do!
Q. I am in love with a married and i don't know what to do, i really love the guy but i don't want to be a home wracker, but what do i do cause i really have strong feelings for the guy, i didn't know that he was married when i meet him and i have just ...
A. 4 December 2006: Just walk away, no future here, he belongs to someone else.... (read in full...)
Didn't know he was married and now I'm 5 months pregnant by him...
Q. Ok. Well, I've contemplated writing in here, but ever heard the saying "You'll go nuts if you don't talk to someone?", yeah. Well that's me. I'm a single mom of a daughter who is 13. I got into a relationship not knowing this man was married. When I ...
A. 30 November 2006: I'd tell him that you expect child support and if you don't get it you'll go through the courts. He'll have no choice BUT to tell his wife. You were not at fault here, he decieved you so don't beat yourself up over it. He needs to face his ... (read in full...)
Not sure but hubby may be cheating. What are the signs to watch for?
Q. I think my husband is cheating on me with my brothers wife. What do I do? I can I find out. We fight every night. We never spend anytime togther. If she comes over he will sit up and talk. But if its just us he goes to sleep on the couch. Everytime ...
A. 29 November 2006: He may not be actually cheating but rather infatuated with your sister-in-law, a crush. I think it's time you had a nice quiet chat about why you guys are fighting so much. If you ask about his feelings towards your sister-in-law he may be ... (read in full...)
The married coworker I've been seeing asked me to marry him!
Q. What does he mean? My boyfriend is very much in love with me and we've been dating since summer. The chemistry between us is amazing and he treats me like a queen. Sadly he is still married and has a family to take care of. I never intended t...
A. 29 November 2006: You posted this yesterday too. What's the deal, too much time on your hands?... (read in full...)
She changed for the worse and we seperated. But I still love her! How can I forget about her?
Q. Hi, everyone, I will appreciate your time and you advice on this please: I have been in relationship with my partner for 2 years. I have to say, from the first few months of knowing her I felt that we might not be right for each other, but I ke...
A. 29 November 2006: You are right about time being a healer. You need to stay busy in the mean time. Go out with friends, start a hobby, join a club, just stay busy. Eventually you will start feeling better, it just takes awhile. Good luck, buddy.... (read in full...)
After having unprotected sex, there's blood in my urine and it's painful to go!
Q. i had unprotected sex on saturday, (i know i know) and its been really painful to urinate since then and theres a bit of blood there too, its not my first time but im scared i could be pregnant. can someone please give me some advice? is this a sign ...
A. 28 November 2006: That isn't a sign of pregnancy but you still could be pregnant. Sounds like a bladder/urinary infection you may need antibiotics so see a doctor. Good luck.... (read in full...)
How do I find out who this phone number belongs to? It was in his phone and it's driving me crazy!
Q. My husband left me a few weeks ago I thought everything was fine, we are back together now but while we were seperated the mobile phone bill came and I noticed a number so I went though his phone and found it under the name jon so I phoned it and ...
A. 28 November 2006: google it and see what you get.... (read in full...)
I think my student fancies me
Q. I am a high school teacher who's happily married and has a 2 year old son. I was doing some work after school when one of my Year 11 students came in. I'll admit for someone who is 16 she is attractive, but, I don't fancy her. The problem is that ...
A. 28 November 2006: You should keep your door closed and locked if you are in the room by yourself. Never be alone with a female student, especially one who has a schoolgirl crush on you. Talk with them in the hallway. If she tries anything again tell her that you are ... (read in full...)
We think his ex is faking that she has cancer! I fear he's trapped into that relationship out of guilt - help!
Q. Someone I know is being emotionally blackmailed online. He is split up with his wife and lives alone now. She is married, lives in the USA and he is in the UK. She says she has cancer and 'just wants to be friends' with him but to be honest w...
A. 28 November 2006: Nothing you can do about this so just back off it. Be there for him but stop nagging him about this. He's a big boy, let him handle his own life. He'll let you know if he needs something from you.... (read in full...)
I want kids but he does not. We're very happy otherwise, so should we split?
Q. Hi everyone, I have just read questions very similar to my own but I still feel compelled to write. I have been with my partner for nearly 3yrs and I have to say that he is the most kind, sincere and funny man I have ever met. I am very much in ...
A. 28 November 2006: You will end up resenting your partner not matter how much you love him. You may not believe it today but as the years go by and you see all your friends having lovely babies the resentment will slowwly grow. Parenthood isn't for everyone but it is ... (read in full...)
Anyone have experiences with golden showers?
Q. My boyfriend and i like to watch porn, while in the sex shop recently he bought one on golden shower porn, he mentioned he would like to try this out on me as it is one of his fantasies. We always talk about what we would like to do to each other ...
A. 28 November 2006: Try it and see if it does anything for you but you guys are definitely not invited to my house for a sleep over!... (read in full...)
I like her but she's never alone! Why do girls travel in packs?
Q. there is this girl i really like, she is in the year below me (probably about 6 months younger than me) and im in year 11. what do i do? i really dont nowhow to tell here, and why do women always travel in packs?? she is never aloun......
A. 28 November 2006: Find out her phone number and give her a call, women don't talk on the phone in packs.... (read in full...)
My friend is 13 and she's dating a 19 year old....is this okay?
Q. is it ok for my 13 year old friend to date a 19 year old?...
A. 27 November 2006: Anyone who tells you this is alright doesn't know and has never been around 13 year old girls. I've raised two daughters and know what I'm talking about here. This is definitely not okay. She is in danger. No normal 19 year old would be doing this. ... (read in full...)
He told me "he's in love with me" but "he loves her"? I don't want to get hurt so what should I do?
Q. I've been dating this guy for 2 1/12 years he 52 years old im 35 years old. but my question is that he live with someone else, we work together for 6 years he told her about me, they been together for over 10 years. we travel together he spend times ...
A. 21 November 2006: Whomever is responsible for coming up with the phrase "I love you but I'm not in love with you" and visa versa crap should be shot. It has to be almost as irritating as that damn "soulmate" crap. Now to address your problem (of your own making by ... (read in full...)
Met a man who is 40 (I'm 22)...should I date him?
Q. Hi I need some advice from someone who can help. A few weeks ago on a night out I met a man who I just clicked with. We talked for hours. Later on I found out he is a lot older than me I am 22 he is 40 but doesnt look it. He has been married bef...
A. 20 November 2006: If you are just going out and having fun then great, go for it! If and when your relationship becomes serious, then you may need to look a little closer to the age gap. For instance would he want children with you etc.... But you don't need to worry ... (read in full...)
My husband wants a divorce but we aren't having any problems I know of!
Q. My husband of 4 years told me he wants a divorce, yet he has made no move to leave the apartment we rent. We were not having any problems that I know of. Should I broach the subject of reconciliation or just get him out?...
A. 20 November 2006: He definitely owes you an explanation and a reason for wanting a divorce! Sit down with him and have a nice long chat. If he won't sit down and discuss it with you then it's probably another woman. Insist that he discuss this with you but there is ... (read in full...)
Curious as to what my ex husband is doing...should I contact him?
Q. My husband walked out on our family on March 2005 with no contact with myself and our 2 yr. old daughter for 6 months. We divorced in August 2005. I began a new relationship in Sept. 2005 and we were together for 3 mos. During that time I became ...
A. 20 November 2006: Think of your daughter everytime you think of contacting your very mixed-up, drunken, violent EX-husband. You don't want to traumatize her her any further. Quite frankly, your love life looks like a yo-yo, made me dizzy reading it. Why you would ... (read in full...)
Suffering from depression...any advice and help out there?
Q. I suffer terribly from depression. I don't want to go on medication. Today is a very bad day, everything is so black. I just can't get my head together today. I wish i knew the answers. Is there anyone out there who can give me some advice. I need a ...
A. 20 November 2006: I totally agree with the cat. The medications that are out there today are absolutely great. You need to make an appointment with your doctor. You will be amazed how well you feel in short order. Don't waste anymore time being miserable. Good luck I ... (read in full...)
Is marriage with my wife, who now repulses me, worth saving?
Q. OK, here's the problem. I have been married 28 years. For the last 17
years, the marriage has been going downhill. The last four or five years
have been real bad. My wife is an intelligent woman but she is so uptight
about trying new ...
A. 20 November 2006: Holy cow, man! If you are so repulsed why haven't you gotten your divorce yet? Hell no this marriage isn't worth saving, it sounds like it breathed it's last long ago. Time to split the blanket and give each other a chance at some happiness. Time's ... (read in full...)
Husband has fallen for my cousin! We've had problems and he loves her. Should I just call it a day?
Q. My husband has fallen in love with my cousin. They know I know. I threw him out and he stayed with his sister for a while. We talked and decided to give it another go. I know he still loves her, I think they talk and may be see each other. I only ...
A. 20 November 2006: oops that's "bad MOUTH" dumb spell checker... (read in full...)
I want to get revenge on my bf for what he did! What should I do?
Q. I want to get revenge on my bf for what he did but i dont know what to do. I want him to regret leaving me cuz i was the best thing that ever happend to him. He didnt cheat on me......he said that he dont want a relationship right now and jus...
A. 20 November 2006: Whoa Chickie! Your boyfriend was upfront and honest with you! No reason for you to want revenge, (it's never worth it even when somebody's done something really rotten). But in your case he acted with total respect towards you. You just need to stay ... (read in full...)
Husband has fallen for my cousin! We've had problems and he loves her. Should I just call it a day?
Q. My husband has fallen in love with my cousin. They know I know. I threw him out and he stayed with his sister for a while. We talked and decided to give it another go. I know he still loves her, I think they talk and may be see each other. I only ...
A. 20 November 2006: It really sounds like this marriage has bought the farm. You should try your best to behave with honor and integrity during the separation and divorce for your children's sake. Don't bad month your husband to the children (you don't need to praise ... (read in full...)
My wife of 22 years is having an affair with a married man... What to do?
Q. I have a wife of 22 years who i felt was my selected partner forever. We have children in high school and college. About five years ago i took this new job that require i spend a lot of time traveling. She has been working as a manager locally and ...
A. 20 November 2006: This is a very painful situation for you and you have my sympathy. I wouldn't advise you speak to the cheater's wife however, she may already know or may find out on her own but you don't want to be the bearer of bad news. Sit down with your wife ... (read in full...)
He told me I was smelling and dirty..this has destroyed my self-esteem! What should I do?
Q. my bf and I have been together 3 years, he is 26 i am 21, we where having sex the other night and he said that i was smelly and slimy and that i needed to take a shower, once we finished he said that i was smelly again and that i was dirty and that ...
A. 17 November 2006: I agree with the aunts that say dump the insensitive jerk, he will only bring you down. He obviously has some major issues towards women and needs therapy. He also needs the curb.... (read in full...)
My Mother never stood up for me because she was worried about what people would think. How do I deal with this?
Q. After the other day I just lost mad respect for my mother as a parent and as a person. All my life my mother stood by and watch my older sister pick with me everyday of my life as well as let people outside of my family get over on me as a child up ...
A. 17 November 2006: Some people just can't handle confrontations, it just isn't in their realm of ability, that goes for mothers and fathers. Unfortunately it has hurt your feelings and that's not good but it is up to you to get beyond it and try to understand your ... (read in full...)
My sexually-experienced girlfriend says I'm "too big" and that being on top hurts...
Q. I am 18 years old and my girlfriend is 16 years old. We have been dating for about 1 month now. When we first had sex she was on top and said that it's too big, that it goes in so far. I found this kind of hard to believe becuase she is no virgin, ...
A. 17 November 2006: "borderline slut" yeah that's just great. You are a real piece of work, buddy.... (read in full...)
We're both in bad marriages and cheating on our spouses, but I'm not sure of his true feelings...
Q. I am married and also in a relationship with a married man. Our spouses are very much alike, so we can relate to each other. We are both in bad marriages, but do not want to punish our children by divorce. This has been going on over 2 years. I am ...
A. 17 November 2006: You are being very very stupid. It will explode back in your face one day. I hope your husband can show your children how to live with honor and integrity. My best wishes to him and your children.... (read in full...)
I'm dating a married man and feel bad about it! Please help!
Q. i'm a 27 year old lady,ove with a 53 years old married man, i love him, n he loves me too..but m worried about my future n i always feel bad when he goes back to see his wife. Should i continue dating him or i stop? pls help me....
A. 15 November 2006: You should stop and you know it. Hand him his walking papers, this isn't love. You are wasting precious time on a dead end. Start your life over and find your own true love. Do it today, you'll feel better I promise.... (read in full...)
I want to get over my affair but it's so difficult! Please help me.
Q. Hi all, Firstly, both of us are married, and I have been having an affair. I loved all the attention I was getting and about 1 month ago he broke off with me. It tore me apart intially, but now I am more stable. For the past two weeks, I have be...
A. 15 November 2006: Stop with this nonsense and focus on your marriage.... (read in full...)
He has a fiance and I'm happy being second best
Q. im in love with my teenage sweetheart only problem is he is engaged and gettin married soon. we went out when we were younger but never had a proper relationship as i was too stupid to admit my feelings for him. been txtn him everyday and he came to ...
A. 14 November 2006: I'll bet his soon-to-be wife won't be happy to know that you are second best. Find a man of your own.... (read in full...)
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