It's been 3 years since he asked me out--do you think he might still like me?
Q. I know this boy who's a really good m8 to me, he did ask me out in yr7, Ever since then i started likeing him and i jst woundered if he still likes me(it's 3 yrs now since then). I do catch him looking at me all the time, n wen ever he has the ...
A. 11 October 2006: Hard to say, why don't you ask him out and see what he says?... (read in full...)
Married with kids but not sure I love him... don't even want to hug or kiss him...
Q. I dont know if i love my husband anymore we have been married 7 years and have 2 children 1 age 4 and 1 age 3 I dont even want to kiss him or hug him but I am indecisive because this happens after a few years of being with someone and I dont want to ...
A. 11 October 2006: It's called the 7th year Itch. Wait and see if it passes. I can't count the number of times I've fallen back in love with my husband over the past 30 some years we've been married! Ups and downs but one smooth road. Good luck.... (read in full...)
My bf's family keep bringing up his ex's name and it hurts! Why do they do that?
Q. Why is it that other family members from your partner's side always brings a little bit of your partner's past up in front of you when it were from 13 years ago it really bugs me as its not to do with me and it hurts me to hear the exs name. ...
A. 11 October 2006: If they are doing it to get a rise out of you, don't give them the satisfaction. Pretend you didn't hear them and smile sweetly. The past is past so ignore.... (read in full...)
Is it possible to love one's 2nd wife more than the 1st wife?
Q. DO YOU think it is possible to love your second wife more than your 1st wife...
A. 11 October 2006: Of course.... (read in full...)
She was size 10-12... But she can't stay away from cakes and chocolate and her weight has ballooned and I don't find her attractive!
Q. Im 21 and i've been with my partner for just over 4 years now. We've been together since we were 17 and i think we have a good relationship, but i feel very unattracted to her now. when we 1st got together she was a size 10-12 now she is a size 16+ ...
A. 11 October 2006: Well if she doesn't want to take the weight off there isn't much you can do. If you have talked to her about it I guess you'll just have to decide whether you want to walk or not. I hope she wises up and realizes it not healthy to be overweight and ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid to get married again, I've been there twice. What do you think?
Q. I am 48 years old, divorced twice, single since 1990. I have been dating a man for 13 years now, I fell deeply in love with this man from early in the relationship. He is divorced after a 28 year marriage. He and I get along great together and talk ...
A. 11 October 2006: Third time's the charm!... (read in full...)
My husband and I fear he may be fired, due to a new manager. Andy advice on how to deal with this?
Q. I am really worried about my husband. Last night after work he told me that through the grapevine he heard that his new manager has it in for him and wants him fired. She sits around most of the time and has only warmed up to one other female member ...
A. 11 October 2006: Let all your friends know that he's looking for a new position, watch the papers, go online, Make sure his resume is updated and circulate it with any applications. I firmly believe that when God closes a door He opens another. Best of luck, I'm ... (read in full...)
How do men get free sex without having to pay for it?
Q. Hi!, i need to ask a question that eveyone escapes from or ignores, without being offensive. How do men get free sex without having to pay for it. More and more men are struggling to get free sex. Its a growing problem that needs to be solved, its ...
A. 11 October 2006: Ha Ha Ha thanks for the laugh.... (read in full...)
Is it possible for a woman to have sex with someone and not want it! and can she have sex with a guy and not realise it ?
Q. Ladies, is it possible for a women to have sex with someone but not want it? Also can a girl have sex with a guy but not know it is happening until it is too late? Because of hurt, alcohol, surprise, and confusion. Can a man just violate a woman so ...
A. 11 October 2006: Did she tell you that she wanted you to stop and you didn't or did she decide after the fact that it wasn't something she should have done? If she told you to stop and you didn't it's a case of date rape if she just regretted it afterwards then it's ... (read in full...)
We were long distance for 6 years, why did he continue to live with his wife but claim to love me ?
Q. hi..i am a 27 year old female, was living in a long distance relationship with a man, 33 now, for 6 years.can someone plse help me understand why cant a married man, who claims that he loves someone else yet continue to live with his wife ( married ...
A. 11 October 2006: Why would he leave his wife for YOU? You've been putting out for him for 6 years! Why buy the cow when the milk is free? He obviously loves his wife much more than his piece on the side. "i did realise his intentions may not have been pure towards ... (read in full...)
I am almost 14, how do I tell my boyfriend I am ready for sex?
Q. im ready to have sex with my boyfriend he has done it be4 but the thing is he now lives in a different state but its not that far away and i don't know how to tell himwe been together for a while now and i really love him i know he wants to have sex ...
A. 9 October 2006: Engaging in sex at such an early age can make your susceptible to many physical problems the major one being cervical cancer with a host of others. Give your body the time to mature that nature demands in order to live to your full potential.... (read in full...)
My man is like a different person when he is drunk. He does not understand how I feel.
Q. my man drinks to much. well he doesnt drink everyday, but anytime he gets the chance he gets smashed. he said that he would try to cut down, but really he just hasnt tried. this is why i dont like to go to parties or go to the bar. he becomes a ...
A. 9 October 2006: That's GOOD luck.... (read in full...)
This guy wants me to work off my debt with sex. Why am I allowing this?
Q. **Hey Cupid's** Am I slut? I don't want to think I am. I can justify myself. There is this guy who has lust me for quiet a while, at least 2 years. He's been very close to me, friend wise. I have told him everything and I confide in him. At the m...
A. 9 October 2006: It doesn't make you a slut it makes you a prostitute. A slut does it for free. Not sure what your money problems are but I'd be visiting the soup kitchen before I'd stoop down that low. Tell the guy to buzz off and start over fresh. Lesson learned.... (read in full...)
I am having a destination wedding, but my family may not be able to afford it.
Q. im getting married in a year, its a destination wedding, im scared to tell my aunts and uncles because we are so close and may not be able to afford to go. i have mentioned about a year ago that i wanted a wedding in the carribean and they blew up ...
A. 9 October 2006: Your family is probably reacting this way because they know they won't be able to attend because it is too expensive. But you must have known that from the beginning. I know I would rather get married somewhere so that my family could attend but ... (read in full...)
My man is like a different person when he is drunk. He does not understand how I feel.
Q. my man drinks to much. well he doesnt drink everyday, but anytime he gets the chance he gets smashed. he said that he would try to cut down, but really he just hasnt tried. this is why i dont like to go to parties or go to the bar. he becomes a ...
A. 9 October 2006: Your boyfriend has all the indicators of alcoholism. There is nothing you can do for him unless he seeks help himself. He needs to go to AA if he doesn't agree to go then you'd better get ready for things to get lots worse before they get any ... (read in full...)
I am 13 and in love with a 43 year old.
Q. i am 13 i am in love with a 43 year old we are getting on well we have been in a relationship for ten months i have asked him too always be honest with me and he is. to day he told me that he is in love with a woman 50000 miles away but he says ...
A. 9 October 2006: "Love of your life" oh please! Where are your parents? ... (read in full...)
My perfect fiance is verbally abusive. How can I save my relationship?
Q. my fiance is so perfect for me but for one thing. He is verbally abusive. He doesnt seem to realise the impact his words have on me. I dont want to feel an inch high anymore and it is effecting my health,job perfomance and emotional well being. How ...
A. 9 October 2006: Whatever you do DO NOT marry him until this has been straightened out. This abuse is totally unacceptable. If he doesn't realize that that his behavior is hurting you then you really need to wake up and smell the coffee. It will only get worse. I ... (read in full...)
I was raped and now I can't be intimate with my BF
Q. i am very nearly 14 years old and am very confused. i have a great boyfriend who i love very, very much and have been with him for 5 months.he is 2 years older than me. when i was in year 5 so about 9-10 yrs old, my mate was dating an older guy that ...
A. 8 October 2006: You are only 14, put sex on hold, and see if you can get some counseling so you can rid yourself of the memories that haunt you. If Rob is worth his salt he will wait for you while you deal with the past. Talk to the school counselor.... (read in full...)
I refused to get back together as friends with benefits
Q. I split up with my guy six months ago because he cheated on me. We've been in contact recently and I think he wants us to get back together. I told him that we have got to be exclusive. He said he didn't want a 'girlfriend' so I refused to get back ...
A. 8 October 2006: I agree with the first aunt, stick to your guns! This "friends with benefits" thing is s scam and rarely ends up as a satisfying experience. You know what you want be determined to have your way or the highway. Good luck.... (read in full...)
he is married i know he loves me deeply like i love him but he won't leave his wife
Q. hey my name is debby and i want to ask a question iv known this guy 8 years and i have been with him for 2 years but the problem is he is married i know he loves me deeply like i love him but he is scared to death of leaving his wife as he thinks ...
A. 8 October 2006: You are very wrong. He doesn't love you deeply, he is using as bit on the side. He has brought you down to the lowest level...the other woman. You can only retrieve your dignity by dumping the loser and vowing to never again get involved with a ... (read in full...)
help i am 14
Q. i am 14 i havent started my period i have really small boobs what should i do help...
A. 5 October 2006: You should just be patient. Some girls take longer to blossom than others. Usually the "late bloomers" are the most spectacular so you have a lot to look forward to, honey! It will be worth the wait!... (read in full...)
Is it ever right for a woman to make her husband choose
Q. Is it ever right for a woman to make her husband choose between her and his mother?...
A. 5 October 2006: More information please. Why does he have to choose?... (read in full...)
Why am I still thinking of him and getting upset, after he beat me and trashed my flat!?
Q. i had been with my boyfriend for 5 years and he beat me up recently - he cracked 3 ribs and i had to have stitches above my eye. he also trashed my flat. i got out and have moved into new flat, new number and havent seen him since. why am i still ...
A. 5 October 2006: You are suffering from all the trauma and the sudden changes. Time is your best friend at this point. You will slowly start feeling better. You did the absolutely right thing about your situation. Do not weaken and try to get in touch with the ... (read in full...)
I'm a lesbian and like 2 women at work! What should I do?
Q. I am in a predicament at work. Im a 17 and seem to like two friends. I am a flirt at work and flirt with all the women there (By the way… I’m a lesbian!) I started working there a year ago and found myself liking two women. Both are four years older ...
A. 4 October 2006: Office romances are difficult at best. I would be very careful making any moves, especially since you didn't say whether either one gay or bisexual. Since A has a boyfriend you best let her decide on her own whether to end their relationship, it's ... (read in full...)
He left me because I couldn't let go of a past mistake he made, now I want him back!
Q. My ex left almost 3 weeks ago - he had lived with me for 2 yrs. He said i pushed him away. Its hard b/c i work with him and see him everyday. I held on to a mistake he made when we first got together and i became insecure and jealous. I have now...
A. 4 October 2006: Well since you've talked to him about how you feel, the ball is in his court and you'll just have to wait him out. Don't wait too long tho' cause life is so very short.... (read in full...)
How can I convince my Mum to let my BF stay while he sorts himself out?
Q. My bf is going through a rough patch, and though our relationship is strong it is having an effect. He is unemployed and will be kicked out of his house soon for not being able to pay the rent. He's asked if there's a chance he can stay with me ...
A. 4 October 2006: It would be helpful to know how old your boyfriend is and what exactly is causing him so much stress. If he is avidly looking for work and not just moping around then that's one thing. Is it likely he will be able to find work (has skills or ... (read in full...)
At what age do parents let go of their children ?
Q. At what age do parents let go? I have an 18 year old daughter (just turned 18). She isn't making the best decisions about drinking (underage) and who she dates. Is it wrong for me to still check up on her and tell her she has to call home? At ...
A. 4 October 2006: If she is still living under your roof you have every right to set the rules and expect her to obey them. As the mother of 3 adult children I can tell you it's difficult but if she respects you as a parent she'll obey your wishes. Just remember to ... (read in full...)
I went dancing with my guy friend and my bf's upset. Why is reacting this way?
Q. I used to take ballroom dancing lesson with my best friend (a guy) before I met my bf. There are 2 things that bothered my bf partly because of his experience with his ex in the past. 1. drinking with friends 2. dancing/going to dinner one-on-one ...
A. 3 October 2006: I think you should respect your boyfriends feeling on this and not go dancing with your friend anymore. I mean it's just the dancing part that upsets him isn't? No biggie to explain to your friend and it sounds very important to your boyfriend. He ... (read in full...)
I'm 38 and have loved this guy since year 8 at school! What should I do about this?
Q. i love this man but i meen love i have loved him since year 8 at school and i am now 32 but yet i still love him what shall i do ...
A. 3 October 2006: Well if he's single why don't you ask him out for coffee or a drink? Of course if he isn't available then you just have to stay busy and keep moving on with your life. Good luck.... (read in full...)
I constantly hear voices and see spirits..am I gifted (psychic) or just schizophrenic?
Q. I think that i am schizophrenic. Either that or i'm actually medically insane. I'm so scared of myself I see and feel what i can only define as spirits all the time, and constantly hear voices and noises that other people cannot hear. I'm scared to ...
A. 3 October 2006: You need to first rule out any physical problems before all else, then see if there are any psychological irregularities. If you get a clean bill of health in those two areas then check into the physic realm. Make the doctor's appointment ASAP. Good ... (read in full...)
It is heartbreaking to seem what is happening to her....how do I handle this?
Q. Not sure that this is the right type of question for this sight but have read some answers here..a lot of sweet people with good insight respond. My mom has alzheimers and I try to go and see her every second weekend. She is not in this city. I work ...
A. 30 September 2006: I agree with the aunts. Support groups will enable you to get some comfort and insight on how to deal with this horribly cruel disease. You will find comfort there. Good luck.... (read in full...)
My husband is neglecting our marriage and family - when should I give up?
Q. Hello all- Searching for input. Husband of 10 years has become increasingly distant from myself and children. I am one of those "married single parents". He has always had his own thing going on. Recently took a demanding job with a long commute....
A. 29 September 2006: I would definitely tell him you need more than just weekends. If he really can find work closer to home then he needs to change jobs. Maybe he would agree to have the family move closer to his current job. If he isn't willing to accommodate your ... (read in full...)
Bothered that my girl has had a threesome before we dated..
Q. I have a question involving threesomes. My girlfriend has told me that she has been in a threesome in which she was with two guys. One of the two guys was just who she was dating at the time and the other his friend. She told me it was great. I told ...
A. 29 September 2006: Sharing the details of one's sexual past with a new pardner is always bad pizza! Just look at all the postings we have here about people coping with their lover's past! Try to put it out of your mind and think of your wonderful future together. Good ... (read in full...)
He tells me he's very happy with me one minute and then says 'something is missing" the next. What does he mean?
Q. I've been seeing my current boyfriend for 5 months. He's in his late thirties but hasn't had many girlfriends before me. We have a lovely time together, never argue, and have both been very happy until recently. Now he tells me he suffers from ...
A. 29 September 2006: I guess it means you may want to give him some space, maybe agree to date other people as well as each other. Let the relationship have a little breathing room. Just sit back and see what develops.... (read in full...)
Where can I find... men?
Q. Bit of a bizzare question but where is the best place to find men? Im 31 years of age and havent had a proper relationship in over 4 years and im starting to get lonely and worry if I will ever settle down. Dont get me wrong I do meet men but for ...
A. 28 September 2006: Do some volunteer work, join a hobby related club (ski club, tennis club), go to events that interest you, just get out there and make yourself visible. You won't find the right guy for you if you stay home sitting on the couch. Get busy!... (read in full...)
Been married a few months and run out of thinsg to say!
Q. I have nothing to say to my wife. We have only been married for a few months, and I am scared. We just moved because of her job, and we have no one to speak to other than each other. I am not working so I can't even tell her about my day. What can I ...
A. 28 September 2006: Read an interesting book together. Watch the news on TV and discuss it with her. Talk about things you would like to have happen in your future.... (read in full...)
Is this mess normal?
Q. is it normal when me and my parnter have sex for is semum to dribbel out of me wen he pulls out of me...
A. 28 September 2006: Yes.... (read in full...)
Think my best friend likes my boyfriend... what can I do?
Q. i think my bestfriend wants my boifriend i have asked her but she denies it what should i do?...
A. 28 September 2006: Nothing you can do. Just be yourself and enjoy your boyfriend.... (read in full...)
We are friends from work and he hugs me, he tickles me. He has a gf with 2 kids! Is this guy gay?
Q. I have a friend, we met at work, after a while we got close, he would hold my hand, tickle me because he liked how i laughed, hug me from behind, he would pull me onto his lap, embrace me, even once i felt him hard behind me. he's got a girlfriend ...
A. 28 September 2006: I'm curious...are you gay?... (read in full...)
How can I get it through to my ex, that its well and truly over!?
Q. I am hoping that some of you can help me with this problem – you see I was with my boyf for 9 years, for 2 of them we were engaged to be married, we broke up 18 months ago after I found out he had been sleeping with my supposed “Best Friend and ...
A. 27 September 2006: You may need to look into getting a restraining order against him if he doesn't stop bothering you.... (read in full...)
Poor Ratings Query
Q. Can anyone tell me why I have such poor ratings?? I thought I was giving good advice. Please answer....
A. 27 September 2006: My ratings suck big time but I'm still hangin' in here and enjoying myself.... (read in full...)
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