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writes: My bf has totally changed way he acts, now i am always accusing him and getting jealous and the other day he said he doesnt love me as much as used 2. So i dnt give him any space its cos i love him and there is distance. he is always talkin to lassis and i get jealous. I cant lose him. I am madly in love with him. What can I do?please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2006): Is he so wonderful? He is giving you so much heartache. I bet if you did the same to him he would be just the same. He is so lucky to have someone who loves and cares for him. If he keeps on moaning about giving him space then i would give him plenty of space. I'd ditch him and get another who can give you back all the love that you have given him and more. There's plenty more fish in the sea. Keep away from the sharks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2006): you need to take a minute and really try to process something: whether or not you lose him is completely beyond your control. there's nothing you can do or not do to make him stay in love with you.
let him do what he wants to do -- after all, you don't want to be in a relationship based on coercion, do you? so let him do it. just let him do it -- if that means not calling you as much, not seeing you as much, talking to other girls ... whatever. let him. until you decide it's offensive, and unacceptable. like if he's being disrespectful, or you really just can't abide it. and then keep letting him do it, just not as your bf anymore.
you can't control what ppl want. so give into it, and if it doesn't work for you, find a new guy. this one's not worth it.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (13 November 2006):
 You'd better back off or you'll lose him to your worst fear. I mean if he's going to be accused of cheating anyway, why not do it? You need to explore yourself and find out why your self-esteem is in the toilet. Poor self-esteem is 99% behind any jealousy problem. Once you figure out what is causing this you can begin to repair it. Good luck.
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reader, David Lewis  +, writes (13 November 2006):
 The only thing I would suggest is to give him his space. I was in a similar situation where I was being accused of things I hadnt done. I had female friends and was often accused of flirting etc. Constant accusations can really put a person off. I am sure that he would change for the better if you stopped accusing him.
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