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writes: I am having a lot of arguments with my husband and I don't know what to do anymore, I am afraid he might hit me one of these times, what should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2006):
I think this is a bogus question.
If you really thought you were in danger, you know what to do.
Are you just seeking to be a victim and revel in internet sympathy? Are you egging him on to hit you so you can be a 'victim'? Examine your own motives in participating in these fights.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2006): Please look after number one..... think of you
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reader, sexyapples99 +, writes (8 November 2006):
 Hi!
Are the arguments set off by him coming on strong to you? Does he get abusive with words? Have you a good relationship other than the arguments? Does he make you feel special? Do you see yourself as number one in his eyes?
Have you a good communication level between yourselves where you have long talks about life in general?
At the end of the day i think you should do a pros and cons list as it helped me. In my situation i was shuffed around in arguments and had abusive words chucked at me. He flirted with other women and this tore me apart.....i didn't feel as though i was the one he wanted.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2006): If your fears are realistic, divorce him at once.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2006): Don't treat him with caution or anything, unless he hits you. If he does, get out of the relationship straight away because you don't deserve that and inform the police. Marriage counselling is a good idea though, you can sort out your conflicts and maybe it will prevent things getting into dangerous territories-domestic violence. good luckxx
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (6 November 2006):
 You can't wait for the first time he hits you, it could be the last...permanently. You guys need to separate for awhile and sort out why you are arguing so much. Sign up for some marriage counseling and go together. But time apart is very important if you fear it could get violent. You may be able to straighten everything out but in the meantime safety first. Good luck.
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