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*ire32always
writes: Hi, my fiance is still not divorced from his ex wife. She has clinical depression and had an affair on him, that's why they split up. Every week she texts him as though they still speak. She continually gives him a hard time about the children, although they love him dearly. Like, last night she texted him to say she was not well again, and then half an hour later she called him loads of names and insulted him. It's probably just jealousy but I can't cope with this woman in my life as well. I understand she is always goin gto be there because of her being his children's mother, but surely she shouldn't be contacting him otherwise? He doesn't want her to and won't reply to her texts. This is going on a year now.. Please can someone help me or guide me through this hard time? :-(
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reader, eire32always +, writes (15 November 2006):
eire32always is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi, he's my fiance cus he asked me to marry him. have been engaged 2 and half years. he is 5 years separated from his ex wife. we have our own place together in ireland. she lives in england. the divorce is being held up because his wife filed for divorce 3 years ago and kept sayin it was near sorted.we wondered what was takin so long and then in june this year we found out she had been lying, and although my fiance had signed papers regarding children etc, she had stopped the proceedings soon after.
now he has filed for divorce and it should be completed by january.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (14 November 2006):
 How can he be your fiancee if he's still married? What's the hold up on his divorce?
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reader, eire32always +, writes (14 November 2006):
eire32always is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi he has already told her on numerous occasions. she has recently foned me and told me that no matter what my partner says to her, she will always be in our life. she said she'll make a point of it. luckily for me, her daughters are helping me out. they have deleted my number n their dads from her fone n refuses to give her it. he has told her on many occasions that she isnt part of his life and that i am who he lives for. so i guess he should be my fiance afterall:-)
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reader, eire32always +, writes (18 April 2005):
Hi, sorry should have said, he has told her on numerous occasions that they will never get back, and only reason they stil speak is for the children. When she hears this, she twists around the conversation so as to involve his daughters, and so we are back at square one again. I dont want him jeopardise his relationship with his daughters in any way, but I dont think Ii can cope with his ex as she is so manipulative and cunning.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2005): If he loves you he should be the one to tell her that the kids are the only tie between them and that you two are very happy together. If he can't tell her then he shouldn't be your fiance.
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