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female
age
36-40,
*issyjay
writes: So I have this guyfriend and we've known each other forever (his mom use to babysit me) around the time I was 19 we started hooking up having sex and hanging out and stuff I started to develope feelings for him and ended our "sexual friendship" I stop talking to him for four years. This year we got back into contact and the very first night we were just going to hang out we ended up having sex then we just keep doing it...and I'm starting to develope feelings for him again but I think he is on the rebound because him and his girlfriend/fiance of three years are broken up but still "trying" to work things out..I don't know..should I end this..better question how do I get him to be mine? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, petina1 +, writes (23 January 2011):
If he and his girlfriend have broken up then there shouldnt be a problem. The problem would be to make sure it is over for good. He will be on the rebound now so be sensitive to that but always have in the back of your mind that its early days and relationships can mend so theres an element of him going back to her as they have a history there. If over time it doesnt look like he will go back to her then you could try for it to work for you. Very delicate situations in the early stages so don't rush things or you could get hurt.
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