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writes:Been asked to partisipate in a three some but have very pro/con views on it plus I like the guy and dont know who the other person is. Am worried that I'll chicken out, it wont be as good as expected and am very nervus about this.Should I do it...?
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reader, oneguy  +, writes (23 January 2011):
No.
HELL NO. Life isn't a movie for God's sake. Who is this guy? How did you even bear to be asked this question? He sounds awful. Cease all contact with him if you want to live well.
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reader, The_truth_hurts_OK +, writes (23 January 2011):
I was nervous before my first threesome, but it totally rocked! All guys want to have three-ways - it's in their nature - so don't be offended. If you don't like the other person in the mix, you can always say no, right? Just go for it and have fun!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2011): If you have any doubts about it, don't do it.
If you want the guy to respect you when he grows out of this phase, please don't share him.
Threesomes are sometimes excuses for men to get closer to women they are interested in without the threat of commitment....it's kind of like being with the girl you like, but bringing your big sister along.
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reader, Kilcardy +, writes (23 January 2011):
Don't do it. Also, you like a guy who is willing to share you with others? He obviously doesn't "like" you the same way.
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reader, wood +, writes (23 January 2011):
do not do it unless you want to. it would be nice to meet and know all the parties before hand.three somes are ok if you know and like every one. i think they just want to use you. you can do better, sex is good and should be fun. woman choose there partners. love
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reader, FloridaCatGirl +, writes (23 January 2011):
 If you want a future relationship with this guy... you will say no this threesome. Otherwise, he will view you as non-girlfriend material... and just someone who is easy sex. It sounds like you like him, so don't ruin your chances for a future a relationship with him by jumping into bed with him and another girl. Good luck!
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (23 January 2011):
 In another word: "When in doubt, DON'T".
I believe this saying applies to you, in your situation.....
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (23 January 2011):
 hi
in a word: no.
it is never a good idea, unless it involves people who are not interested in a good committed relationship with each other. you don't even know the other person (i'm guessing its a girl??) so why on earth would you want to 'sign up' for sex with a complete stranger??
you don't want to do it, you are scared of it and it seems you are only considering it to please the guy that you like! be careful because it seems like you like him a whole lot more than he likes you! stick to your principles on this and keep respecting yourself, you are NOT this guy's sex toy
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2011): If you're hesitant don't do it. Threesomes are usually a disaster.
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