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I'm nervous and don't know what move to make next!

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Question - (22 January 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 January 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok so i recently met this guy at a bar. He immediately came up to me and asked me if i would like a drink. So we ended up chatting for the rest of the night, and he walked me home. We then spent the rest of the night talking. Finally, I started getting really tired, and so he was going to leave. He asked for my number, then decided to give me his number. Then he was hesitant to leave. He asked me to breakfast, but I didn't really want to go. So he ended up staying a while longer and we talked. As these things go, we started making out. Then we hooked up, but we stopped and we went to sleep. So i wake up and he's gone. I have his number, and he left his glasses here. Should I call him? I'm not really the hook up kind of girl. I've never been in this situation before. This guy is a really interesting guy and I do like him, but I guess I'm just nervous as to what move I should make now.

Any help?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2011):

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so he left them here one day. i called him but he didnt answer. i didnt give him my number, but he gave me his. so at this point im discouraged.

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A female reader, petina1 United Kingdom +, writes (23 January 2011):

petina1 agony auntI'm wondering how many days he's left it. He must need his glasses as well. You were ready for a one night stand no matter which way you look at it. It may have seemed a good idea at the time for him because he'd had a drink but when he's sobered up he may have been scared off.

Other wise, looking at a different scenario, youve exchanged numbers, he hasnt got in touch with you, y ou have his glasses. How badly does he want his glasses back. You could always ring him and ask him to come and collect them. The response to that would tell y ou all you need to know.

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