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writes:Hi. Well I just want to know how to stop loving my first love. Obviously, I know I should have broken up with him a long time ago and all, but I just want to stop loving him. I've heard he has cheated on me so many times. Ugh. I don't know what I'm waiting for, but for some reason I still love him. He has a way to get to me. Ugh. I know I deserve better, but it's just so hard. I dont want to be a love fool. What can I do to be emotionally strong because I forgive and forgive and I just can't take the crying and pain anymore.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2011): well i think you just nedd to get rid of hima nd then for the next 3 weeks it all the ice cream you can . it will hurt to start out but it will all get better in the end :) hope it all works out for you x :) RED LIPZ XX
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2011): I think the first thing you need is to focus on the bad stuff. Women have a way of always seeing the good and forgetting about the bad. Keep reminding yourself all the bad stuff he's done to you. Second, you need an outside source of support. A friend or a new love interest of some sort. If you start to see you can be good outside of this relationship, it'll be easier to leave him. Good luck!
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reader, petina1  +, writes (22 January 2011):
 The first break will b e the hardest but then after that it will get easier. The thing is to get away from him, do you share a place, is it yours/his etc. You need him away from you before you can recover, so find a way to do that first. I'm only saying this because I divorced my husband, even though i still felt for him, i couldnt live with him and i grew much stronger once he was away from me if y ou know what i mean. Good Luck!
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