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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend doesn't treat me the same anymore. What can I do?he used to text me all the time, but I'm lucky if i get one without asking a question what I need the answer to.. and most of the time one worded. He never makes the effort to come see me, it's gotten one sided and the only way I get to see him is if I make the effort to see him... which I do even if i try resist,I just cave too easily. Also, the only definate place I can see him weekly is a youth group, and a big problem I have is I'm just not confident enough to talk around his friends...which makes it awkward because if I cut myself out of the conversation, he just ignores me and talks to his friends.. despite the fact I get to see him once a week for the maximum of 45 minutes (he plays in the band in the younger age group for the youth group) I know basing on my age this is going to sound completely idiotic but I really am in love him, never ever said anything like that but I really do. I love him and it actually hurts.. I can't see him all the time because he lives two trains away and we're both in full time education. right now you've got the jist of things, (I'm sorry I'm babbling, I'm basically using this as a way to let my feelings out) last point: He treats me near enough the same when we're alone, but when I'm obviously after the attention. I have no intention of leaving him, but is there any ideas on how I can solve any of these problems? (main things are confidence around his friends, and why he's acting like this)
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reader, The_truth_hurts_OK  +, writes (23 January 2011):
The truth is that guys are really excited about a conquest - if they think they already have you then thy are just not that excited - it's all about the hunt. Be coy and elusive and you just might make him excited again, otherwise say goodbye because he will find more prey to hunt. Good luck!
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