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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I recently moved to a new town and made some new friends. I mostly hang with the boys since I become easily jealous and I'm very conceited. It makes me feel better about myself being surrounded by a group of guys. Along the way, I made some pretty good friends. Three especially, let’s call them O, D, and I. I am REALLY close to O and we actually had a thing going on for a while. Then we tried dating but I feel a bit ashamed of him, like being seen with him so after two days, I broke up with him, after we had already kissed and my first kiss too. The thing is with O, we are really sexual and I'm a bit frightened that one day it will go too far. O is also a bit mean sometimes and I don't know exactly what he thinks of me. D on the other hand, is a total sweetheart. After school we walk together every day, and talk, and really connect. I've started to really like him, but he and O are best friends. I want to tell him that I like him but there’s a chance he doesn’t like me and there’s still a chance O likes me because he is always hugging me and flirting and etc. I is also really nice but he has his moments. The thing is that I am almost positive that he doesn't like me. I’m pretty much best friends with all of them... despite the short time that I have known them. My question is what should I do?Should I be with O, a guy that really likes me, but I feel ashamed of being with?Or D, who is a sweetheart but I dont want to ruin what we have since we’re so close...also being the best friend of the guy who still likes me?Then I, a guy that mostly likely doesn’t like me at all?Or should I try to stay single and maybe try for a guy outside my group of friends.....yes, the three of them are all in my group of friends.Please, your opinion would really benefit my decision..
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell I know its a bad feature for me, but I don't find O attractive, and he's also kinda nerdy, and me, while im mostly friends with that group of friends, I have other friends and Im always surrounded by people.
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reader, spnwinchester  +, writes (23 January 2011):
Why are you ashamed to be with O. Is it because he is best friends D who you seem to like, or is it another reason?
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