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writes:hey, I know valentimes day is for another few weeks yet but i'm in major stress.!This is my first valentimes day where i am with someone and in a serious relationshipI have been with my boyfriend a year now and i want to make this valentimes day so special so that we will both remember it I dont know anything to buy him , or to do on valentimes day as i want to make it romantic.we are both still quite young so no too explicit ideas please, just romantic ideas thanksX Reply to this Question
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reader, sammi star +, writes (22 January 2011):
 I really like the book idea. I'm all about the personalised presents and try to make it a rule that more time is spent than money. Anyone can buy a gift but putting thought and time into something unique shows real love :)
I did an indoor picnic for my bf once. I bought loads of tea lights (they're so cheap) set them out in a huge heart shape, layed a blanket in the middle, scattered it with heart shaped confetti and cooked his favourite foods and bought his favourite wine.
Another idea is to make a collage of pictures of the two of you together or buy a little box, decorate it in a way that means something to you both then fill it with little notes on pretty paper, things like love quotes, lyrics or just things you love about him.
Let your imagination go wild! The possibilities are endless :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2011): Well one year me and my boyfriend rented fireproof. it was an amazing movie then while we were watching he said he was going to the bathroom but he went and lite candels n the bedroom and put rose peddals all over the bed and set out a box of chocolates. After the movie he carried me to the bedroom layed me down and started to undress me and I undressed him. Then he fed me sweet milky choclates and shared them w me. Getting us both n the mood. Then we ......well I'm sure u know what came next and it was amazing.best valentines day of my life!!1 hopefully my story will give u and your boyfriend a few ideas. O and I bought him some ky warming sensation. He loved it as did i:) I noticed u were 18 to 21 so I didn't think this was to much but if it was I'm sorry and hope u guys have a great valentines day.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2011): buy a small blank(empty on every page) plain booklet. Use paper in his team color/colors to cover the outside.
Don't name the book, don't put your name nor his name on the book.
But as he turns each page he still know it has meaning for both of you.
On each page place something flat, or write a love saying.
So: page examples could be:
1. a lock of your hair secured at the top with a dab of glue. (leave page open until dries)
2. A picture or even a drawing of the place where you met.
3. Look through the internet for romantic quotes
4. A kiss from you lips (let it dry well so it does not smudge)
5. Another nice saying
6. Something that might remind him of a great outing you had together (google earth the place then download a picture looking down)
7. Every few pages include something he loves- picture of his football team or a sport he loves or the car of his dreams)
8. Something that depicts something only you both know. (eg if someone had a nickname like 'rusty' you cd get a picture of a rusted item Martha Stewart Living has great pictures, even for school projects)
9 another love saying
10. A picture or a recipe of something he loves to eat - favorite friut or favorite vegetable etc)
Once you have the hang of it you can fill every page. And the booklet remains unique to both of you, but does not cost an arm and a leg. It only takes time and your creativity.
If you did want to include something that cost $ it could be tickets to attend something he likes.
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reader, Odds  +, writes (22 January 2011):
 Whatever you do with him, the best gift you could give a guy is to be easygoing about it. By all means, make a big plan, but don't get more attached to the plan than to the relationship. Instead of requiring it be a special day, just laugh off anything that does not go according to plan, and have an easy backup option if everything goes wrong - set aside a movie and a frozen pizza at your house, just in case.
If you take the pressure off him (and yourself) to be perfect, the day will be much better for both of you.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (22 January 2011):
 http://www.findgift.com/Holidays/Valentines-Day/for-Boyfriend/
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