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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I been seeing this marry man for about almost 5 yrs now we never had sex we just share our feeling with each other I just don't understand why every time we are together he always say u will always be mines like I was talking to his co worker at his job he just got very upset what is wrong with him someone pls help when is wife is at work he come by an we sit in the car holding hands he tired kissing but I wouldn't kiss him back but he only calls me with his number blocked out what is really going on pls someone help me answer this
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (22 January 2011):
 He is getting jelous over you talking to other men because he wants you to himself. However you need to remember that this man is married so although he wants you to himself he will never be yours because it is his wife who he spends his life with, who he goes home to, who he sleeps beside at night. You are just the other woman and probably somebody that makes him feel good about himself.
Good for you for not being intimate with him and keep it this way. In his eyes it is probably like a fun challenge to try and get you to kiss him or have sex with him. He is trying to put a bit of fun in to his life and you would be the one that would end up getting hurt.
Explain to him that you are a friend and that is all and start going out and living your life. Find yourself a man that is not married but that is single and someone who you can share your life with. Not someone who is looking for a cheap fling.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2011): What is wrong, surprised you need to ask!You are 22-25, and have been having this odd relationship with a married man where you sit in his car, hold hands, but don't kiss, never been intimate with, yet you ask what is wrong with him.Clearly he wants and needs outside ego stroking, and the set up suits him as he has a wife to go home to, but YOU, what is the attraction of this, as it is not healthy. I think it is you, who needs to question WHY do I do this, why am I not seeking out a normal and healthy connection with a single guy.Five years is a long time for such a situation to continue, we already know why he keeps it going, but a girl, of either 17 or 20 when this started, suggests something more worrying. I suggest you seriously re-evaluate why you do this...and then stop!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2011): he obviously fancies you and the fact that he is married is not good at all. he is propaly jealous and wud like you as his own but then again he is married. i suggest you talk to him and tell him that you dont feel it is right that you should be so close it is ok friendsip but not an intimate relationship being as he is married
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reader, impatientlywaiting +, writes (22 January 2011):
It sounds like you are having an affair. Affairs do not have to involve sex, they can be purely emotional. It sounds like the man you are seeing has become obsessive and possessive (he probably acts the same way towards his wife). In my opinion, you should try to distance yourself from him and let the relationship go. He will probably not change the way he acts because typically, the person in a marriage or relationship that is cheating is the one that acts a little crazy. It sounds like your relationship is going nowhere good.
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