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writes:Ok so he came to my school this year, and since then we have been bestfriends. In the beggining (first days i knew him) i really liked him and he liked me, but he never told me and i never told him and so i still liked him but then he liked my best friend for a while, and becasue of that he didnt like me anymore he moves on from girl to girl in the six months ive known him hes liked maybe 10 girls and gone out with three i havent liked or gone out with anyone so heres the thing through time i have come to love him i am so in love him but he has this new gf and he talks about her all the time she makes him really happy every time i talk to him its o hey whatsup and he will be like o just vcing with my gf :D and idk what to do i dont want to ruin our friendship because it means everything to me but at the same time i really want to be togher but he really loves his new gf like a lot im just so confused should i just put my feelings off is it just becasue i havent really had a relationship with any guy (or a guy who liked me) in these 6 months that i am just so desperate? i dont know anymore how i feel everytime i am around him i love him more hes all i can think about but now when i talk to him he seems non interested and sort of annoyed hes called me hot and stuff and said things like “why wouldn’t a guy want you, your so hot dont worry :)” was he saying this becasue he meant it or just to be nice? so help me out haha because i dont know what to do
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2011): Girl, let me save you a lot of heartbreak. Don't go for this kind of guy. You will end up unhappy if you get involved with him. You can learn this now the easy way or you can learn this the hard way and get hurt. But either way you WILL learn this.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (22 January 2011):
Why would you want to go out with a guy who'll just dump you anyway?
I think you need to be very careful, because like a lot of teenagers, you're overlooking the fact that he can't really commit and has never shown interest in your other than to say you're 'hot' - which shows that he's a little shallow and immature.
If you set yourself up with guys like this, then you'll just end up alone and used. There is no rush to have a boyfriend. Those other girls who got dumped won't be happy knowing they were used. It's better to find the right boyfriend, rather than go through a load of guys who'll just use you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2011): he moves from girl to girl. And he will keep doing that. Before the age of 18 a guy treats girls like mountains to climb, or notches on his belt. At his age he can't financially support a relationsip. Nor can he legally marry.Or he can do is sample, taste, and enjoy.Maybe he has you earmarked for more, once he has sampled, tested and enjoys,Let the other girls be the testers.Bide your time. Still laugh and joke and be relaxed. If he's the one for you, or the one of the other guys is, then you will be there, all ready, fresh as a daisy. A breath of fresh airIf it is meant to be it will happen
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