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female
age
30-35,
*ana431
writes: Dear Cupid me and my boyfriend clicked right away and we moved in together the same night as our first date we've been together Every day since that day for the past 2months now all of a sudden there's a matter of him thinking I'm lieng and the trust seems to be going away what do I do
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2011): You moved in at your first date, and now TWO months later he is different. First off, you're a bit too "friendly" if you catch my meaning. Second off you never got to know him well enough to know who he was. People are always extremely nice on a first date.... you wait till you've known a guy for a month before you sleep with him. And you wait till you've known them 6 months at least before you live with them.
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reader, Aunty BimBim +, writes (22 January 2011):
YOu need to remove yourself from this situation, you need to move out, so that you can have some time to think about the relationship and how come you moved in so fast, you cant know somebody well enough to move in after one date only.
I beleive this situation is fraught with problems, and they need to be sorted out BEFORE you move in again, if that is what you decide to do after you have fixed the problems.
To be honest it sounds like the beginning of an abusive relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2011): ~JUMPING THE GUN BEFORE JUMPING THE BROOM?~
Pardon me Sweetie...but..is it my eyes or is there a typo in your question with respect to "...my boyfriend clicked right away and we moved in together the same night as our first date...?"
~WHOAH?!~
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