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I found out the other day my friend took the number of a guy I have liked for months from my phone and started texting him

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Question - (22 January 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 23 January 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I found out the other day my friend took the number of a guy i have liked for months from my phone and started texting him

Anyway ive liked him for a few months but have never said anything as i do actually think hes to good for me, we have tho slept together a number of times,

Anyway my friend as admited that what she was texting him was that 1 of his friends likes him(me) but she couldnt tell him who it was

So apparently this has been going on for a few months anyway she asked the question if he liked someone would he tell them he replied yes he would, so she then put well u must not like my friend then, he then replied why is she ugly my friend put no shes lush would do anything for anyone

He then replied is it with a name on the text with a lol on the end ( it was actually my name so he must have guessed)

My mate then replied no who is that dont no who it is he basically put u no who it is and left it as that

Anyway my friend had 2 tell me abiut this just incase he said anything she showed me all the txts from him and what she has wrote to him

And he still hasnt said anything to me about it (he doesnt no that i no)

Now my only problam is ive texted him asking if he could pick me up the other day and he never replied to my text when he usually does, this is after all this stuff came out

I have proof on txt that if my mate ever told him he would not stop talking to this person ie me (which he has stoped talking to me)

Please where do i go from hear its a bit of a mess..

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A female reader, angelDlite United Kingdom +, writes (23 January 2011):

angelDlite agony aunthi

so your mate has secretly been trying to do a bit of match making, but when he asked if the person that likes him was you she said 'no'?

maybe he now thinks someone different likes him and that's why he is not as interested in you now? alternately maybe he just didn't receive your text or he hadn't read it until it would have been well too late to pick you up anyway. are you a friend of his then? is there some reason that you cannot just tell him yourself that you like him, i mean, you have slept with him in the past anyway so there's no need to be shy with him is there?

if he guessed that you were the mystery friend, he probably thinks that you put her up to texting him and he may have thought this was an immature thing to do. prove to him that you are not, just ask him :)

xx

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