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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Ive been dating a guy for almost three years and I still feel hot for him one week and cold for him the next. He makes me feel loved and needed and we can be the best of friends like it comes naturally. Then he will show his irritated and angry side and I start to have doubts and stray from him. He is scary when he is angry and I have forgiven him after swearing to myself and others I will never speak to him again.But he always seems to win me back. He acts like hes the victim, because I stray from him and disrupt his world by dating other people. He has caught me dating other people while we were apart and exposed our relationship out in the open to embarass and humiliate me. He has stalked me and humiliated me at work, costing me my job in the long run. He has been my best friend and my only friend during the loneliest times of my life, but he has been my worst nightmare. Im back with him now, but I worry that Ive made another mistake. I cant seem to stay away from him after we broke up for over 6 weeks I took him back because I got lonely and he wouldnt stop calling me. Please help with your advice.
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reader, spnwinchester  +, writes (23 January 2011):
Leave him, this clearly won't be able to go anywhere
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reader, CJH  +, writes (23 January 2011):
 Youer being utterly manipulated by this man - break away before he does you some real damage.
The hot and cold thing isnt uncommon but its almost certainly a sign that this relationship isnt working.
Its easy for me to say because Im not in the realtionship but from the way youve described it so far, I`d say its no good for you.
Look at how he lays guilt trips on you and how he tries to ruin anything you get into when youre not a couple.
Run woman, run!
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