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Should I tell my parents that I masturbate???

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Question - (22 January 2011) 14 Answers - (Newest, 10 December 2015)
A male United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I am 13, and I masturbate. No one knows about it and I don't know what to do about it. How do I tell my parents??? Should I tell my parents???

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2015):

Hey don't worry i masturbate too i like to keep it too myself i like to think what happens in my room stays in my room its perfectly normal to explore your body its part of nature you would have to do it sometimes and anyway there is nothing wrong with it it is just simply learning what feelings you have and what makes you feel good.

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-anonymous supporter

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A male reader, Ignacio ramos United States +, writes (29 January 2011):

When i was 13yo my mom said to me son masturbation is normal fun and clean. Thre are 2 rules rule 1. If you going to masturbate do it in your room close your door and lock it your room is your safe zone have a roll tolit papper so you can wipe off the sperm off your body and take a shower wash your body don't forget to wash your balls and your dick pull the foreskin of your dick and wash the tip of your dick. A claen penis is a happy penis. rule 2. Never ever ever use the pubilc restrooms to masturbate its ok to use to piss most pubilc restrooms don't have doors child molesters and gay men and gay boys your age use we call it the danger zone its not safe its your body. This msg goes to all the 13yo boys out thir masturbate all you want but don't over do it

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2011):

yeah i have the same problem, im 13 and i do it i would never tell mum and dad, im just worried about them bringing up the subject.

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A female reader, angelDlite United Kingdom +, writes (24 January 2011):

angelDlite agony aunthi

just carry on doing what your doing, enjoy it, this is the ONE thing you don't have to tell your parents about :)

xx

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A male reader, Kilcardy United States +, writes (23 January 2011):

No...they already know you whack off. It's no big deal.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2011):

Hell no! lol. They likely assume that you do (or will do) anyway.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2011):

That's just something that you don't discuss with your parents. It's nothing to be ashamed of, but it's just a personal act that you don't talk about with your parents. It's completely normal to be masturbating at your age.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2011):

It's not that masturbation ir wrong at all it's just that it's something that you don't just blurt out to parents unless you need trusted advice on the matter.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2011):

There's no need to tell anybody about it, really. It's a private matter that only concerns yourself.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2011):

no don't tell them. why would you even consider such a thing? don't

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2011):

Okay let me put it to you this way, you telling your parents you masturbate is like your mom telling you she gives your dad blow jobs. Would you really want to hear that from your mom? Well they don't want to hear your sexual activities either.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2011):

Why would you need to tell anyone you masturbate?

Seriously why? What purpose would it serve to tell your parents? I'm in my 30's and have never discussed masturbation with my parents.

Just make sure you clean up your mess and make sure you don't get caught or it will be embarrassing as hell. Your parents masturbate too by the way, in your 13 years of life have you ever caught him or heard him masturbating? No of course not and he probably started at your age too.

Masturbation is a private act, you never have to discuss it with anyone, just like you don't have to discuss how you wiped your ass the last time you took a dump. Talking to your parents about wanking is like talking to them about the last shit you took. They really don't want to know.

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A male reader, The Realist Canada +, writes (22 January 2011):

The Realist agony auntDon't bother telling your parents. If you have questions you should ask them but other than that it will come out when it comes out. It's not that masturbation ir wrong at all it's just that it's something that you don't just blurt out to parents unless you need trusted advice on the matter.

Plus they probably know or suspect that you do anyway.

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A female reader, jayronae United States +, writes (22 January 2011):

jayronae agony aunt it's normal for everyone to masturbate, especially teenage boys. There's no need to tell them because they know that sooner or later you'll start. Just don't get caught in action, cause that will be very awkward :p or if u look at porn, erase the history lol

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