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*tef02
writes:There's this guy I've known for about 5 years. We meet in this internet thing and I finally decided to go meet up with him on July. We meet and everything went good. We seen each other couple more times and we did end up sleeping together. I started developing feelings for him and I did tell him he also told me he likes me. At first I told him I didn't want to get hurt so we should stop talking he said your not I like you to so I didn't stop. Now I recently seen him and he was a total ass. Every time I see him I bring him food and we chill and sometimes we do have sex. That day I brought the food we did have sex and then watched tv. Then his real him came out he was telling me if he didn't like me he would tell me and if there's things he doesn't like he would be straight up but in a mean way he said this. I was like this is to much for me I put so much in this and he's just saying I like you to. So the day after I text him since he doesn't like talking in the phone I told him we cant be friends he just said okay bye. Then we argued after that and left it as a good bye. Im confused all this was it a game did he lie to me? should I text him wait for him 2 text me? if he does how do I act nice as always? I need advice...
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reader, stef02 +, writes (11 January 2011):
stef02 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks for the advice.
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reader, swiftone  +, writes (11 January 2011):
He sounds very immature and mean. From July to January, i would have thought the relationship should have progressed to something a bit more serious. His reply to your text gave me the impression that he doesnt take you or your feelings seriously at all. Forget him and move on. It will be difficult but very much worth it in the long run.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2011): Forget about him and move onto to a guy who knows what he wants. Your guy is to much of a hassle.
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reader, AuntyMaur +, writes (11 January 2011):
 96% of Online relationship end once the people involved meet in reality. The fantasy is over. Its amazing how many people fall in love online - thinking they have met mr or mrs right but when they meet in real time it all falls apart. I dont think he lied, I think he did like you but the relationship has run its course. Dont lose your self- respect by texting him, texting is so impersonal - let him go he does not desserve you. Move onward and upward.
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