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30-35,
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writes:today I got out of the shower and I tried to get dressed and my boyfriend wanted me to come next to him and I Wanted to get ready because I had a d.rs oppitment at 1:00 p.m and he was playing around with his belt and hit me in on my butt I told him to stop 3 times He kept on.So I got my things and was walking away when it hit me in my arm and it urt really bad and I got made then I went to the Bathroom and then I came back in the room and he told me to come by him I was mad and I didn't want to go by him and I know I'm not the only girl that would do the same thing then hes like if you are going to be like that so can ISo I said what ever then he got mad at me and walked out then I went outside and then Held his car door open and I asked him "are you doing this just to break up"?We got in a fght 2 days ago and we hve been fine since then and I dont know what i hsould do and when i said that he said "that is your own crazy problem"And he had to be at work at 1:00 and he started getting ready at 11:00 and walked out the door I asked where are you going?You don't have to be at work for 2 more hours?he said he was "going to my moms"It was kinda fishy to me I don't know why but I dont know I want to be fine but Im tired of beeing the one that always puts in 100 percent I always do.and We have a kid on the way and he tells me the kid is going ot hate you and the baby is going to love me and it hurts me really bad I have feelings just like everyone else And I don't know what I should do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2011): This is not a man you should raise your child to be with!
Warn him if he doesn't stop you'll leave, go to friends or family, anyone!
Anyone who hits you does not deserve to be within 10 feet of an innocent child.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2011): There should not be hitting or mean things said. You may want to see about not being with this boyfriend. Can you live alone or with a friend and raise the baby yourself? Would you want to give the baby for adoption if the home is not peaceful? These are things only you can decide. I think, though, that you need to think about taking care of some basics. The house must be peaceful for anyone living in it to be healthy. It's even more important with a baby coming. So, no games, no pouting, shouting, hitting or acting immature. That goes for all the adults. Then you can work on your goals, dreams and improving the quality of your life. If your boyfriend does not agree, maybe he is not the one for you.
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reader, Serpico +, writes (11 January 2011):
Strange question - why did you decide to have a child with someone that treats you so poorly? What once was a problem that could be solved by hanging up the phone is now a lifelong committment.
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